About MarriedDance

MarriedDance is a Christian-owned sex shop that’s run by a husband and wife team. This adult store has been in business since 2011 and has helped tens of thousands of couples add intimacy to their marriage beds. All of the adult toys in this sex toy store for couples are displayed nudity-free with marriage-focused and informative descriptions. We also include one-on-one email support before and after the sale on everything from product features to advice about using the item to add intimacy to your marriage bed at no additional cost.

Please continue reading for more details about our store and our beliefs.

Our View on Sex Toy Usage

Vibrators have had a stigma associated with them among Christians for a long time because of their secular marketing, offensive packaging, and association with masturbation and porn. If you put all of that aside, a vibrator is neither good nor bad, sinful or holy. It’s just an object that, if appropriately used, can be used to add intimacy to your marriage bed in a way that doesn’t cheapen sex.

Think about this. Almost all Christians accept personal lubricants as an acceptable addition to lovemaking. But what if that personal lubricant is used to masturbate while thinking about someone else? Is the lube or the act bad? The same can be said about vibrators and marital aids. Using them with your spouse during foreplay and intercourse to enhance lovemaking can be a great thing. Sex toys are neither good nor bad; it’s what you do with them that matters.

Read our post, “Are Sex Toys OK in a Christian Marriage?” for an in-depth explanation of our views about using sex toys to add intimacy to your marriage bed.

Physical stimulation from touch or sex toys is only one of several aspects of having great sex. Sheila Gregoire’s “The Orgasm Course” explains in great detail the other aspects of what makes sex great along with techniques to help her orgasm. We HIGHLY RECOMMEND taking this course with your spouse so you can truly make the best love you can make!

Christian-friendly Environment and Support

Christian-friendly Environment

We sell most of the same popular sex toys and marital aids as secular stores. What sets us apart is our “Christian-friendly” environment and support. “Christian-friendly” doesn’t mean the toys are blessed or anything like that. “Christian-friendly” means all of the items in our store are displayed without nudity or models, and their descriptions are marriage-centered and God-honoring. Most product descriptions include a section that suggests a few ways the product can be used to spice things up.

We also do not carry products directly linked to the porn industry or include pornographic images on their packaging. For example, we don’t have toys branded “Fifty Shades of Grey” or items that are replicas of real people.

One-On-One, Excellent, Marriage-centered Support

Are you new to intimacy aids, or do you want more information about using intimate toys? Check out our Pillow Talk Blog. It has lots of information about purchasing a vibrator and how to use each type.

If you have any questions about an item or how to use it to add intimacy to your marriage bed, we offer Christian-friendly, marriage-centered, one-on-one email support before and after your purchase at no additional cost. Send us your question, and we’ll do our best to help you out.

Why Shop Here?

Service Before AND After the Sale

Along with being Christian-owned, nudity-free, and marriage-centered, we try our best to educate our customers on using the items they purchase. Try getting that from Amazon! Many of our product descriptions give suggestions about how to use them, and we’re always happy to guide you on using the products after your purchase for as long as you need. We’re only an email away if you have any questions about a product before or after your purchase.

Why Trust Us?

Several thousand couples have trusted us with their intimacy aid purchases since we opened in 2012. We’ve sold sex aids to people from North Pole, AK to Miami, FL, from the retired couple down the street to the newlyweds next door, from the pastor and his wife to the occasional churchgoer. Couples from all walks of life trust us with their marital aid purchases.

Several marriage bloggers and sex experts also trust us enough to recommend MarriedDance to their readers. Here are a few of the more popular marriage blogs that promote or mention MarriedDance and our products.

Many of our customers are referred to us by pastors of all denominations, marriage intimacy classes and conferences, Christian counselors, and sex therapists. We’re even cited as a reputable place for Christian patients to shop for marital aids in a medical textbook!

Important Information:

Return Policy

Because of our products’ intimate nature and sanitary purposes, we do not accept returns for non-defective items. This is for our customers’ and staff’s health, safety, and peace of mind and is the only way we can guarantee the items have not been tampered with. Any item designed to come into contact with any body part or body fluid is non-returnable and, by law, non-resalable.

Think about it this way, would you want to buy a vibrator from a sex toy store that takes returns?

Read our guide to “Choosing Your First Vibrator” to help make an informed purchase. We’re available for one-on-one support if you’d rather that.

Lingerie: We do not accept lingerie returns or swap lingerie for different sizes. We do our best to provide accurate sizing information. Please measure yourself before making a purchase to ensure a good fit. Also, keep in mind that lingerie doesn’t have to fit perfectly. It usually doesn’t stay on very long anyway 😉

What if I change my mind and want to cancel my order?

Email [email protected] as soon as possible. If your order has not been filled, we’ll cancel it immediately and issue a full refund. If your order has already been filled, you’ll have to refuse the package, and we’ll refund your credit card minus shipping charges as soon as we receive the package.

Defective Items

If you’ve received a defective item not covered by a manufacturer’s warranty, we’ll replace it with the same item or issue a refund. If the defective item is covered under a manufacturer warranty, you’ll have to get a replacement from the manufacturer.

Before contacting us about a defective item, try this:

  • If your vibrator includes batteries, check for a battery-disabling pull tab, and pull it out if you find one.

    Example of a battery pull tab.
  • Make sure you’re using brand-new batteries. Sometimes the batteries that are supplied with the products go dead. Switch them out with brand new ones.
  • Make sure you’re using the correct battery size. Products with small watch batteries require very specific sizes.
  • Make sure the batteries are inserted correctly. If a battery is inserted backward, some vibrators won’t work.
  • Make sure the endcap is completely closed. Many vibrators require the endcap to be closed completely to work.
  • Read the directions carefully. Using the more advanced toys can be confusing at first. They often come “locked” to preserve their batteries and avoid embarrassing you with a vibrating box.

Our Money-Back Guarantee and Warranty

All of our products are guaranteed to be in working order when they arrive. When you receive your package, promptly check the items to make sure they are in working order. If you have received a defective item or have an issue with your order, please email [email protected] as soon as possible. We’ll work with you to resolve your problem.

30-Day Warranty

All items are guaranteed to be in working order and are warrantied for 30 days after receiving them. Many of our premium items include a manufacturer warranty for up to 10 years. If the product includes a warranty, you should contact the manufacturer about receiving a replacement.

Shipping and Packaging Information

Your privacy is a high priority for us. We understand that you don’t want your package to scream, “I just bought a vibrator from MarriedDance!” Our discreet packaging doesn’t contain anything that gives away its contents. There’s no branding, and the return label reads Shipping Department.

Processing Time

All orders except Liberator sex pillows are usually processed and shipped within 1-3 business days. Orders that are placed around holidays or during sales can take a little longer to process and ship.

Shipping Options

  • FREE USPS First Class: Orders over $100 or newsletter subscribers are eligible.
  • USPS Priority (Highly Recommended)
  • USPS First Class (Can take anywhere from 5 days to weeks)

ALERT: USPS AND UPS ARE EXPERIENCING UNPRECEDENTED VOLUME INCREASES AND LIMITED EMPLOYEE AVAILABILITY DUE TO THE IMPACTS OF COVID-19. SHIPMENTS WILL TAKE LONGER THAN USUAL.

P.O. Boxes

We ship to post office boxes, but we can’t guarantee that you’ll receive it. Most P.O. boxes will accept large packages, but it’s good to check with them first to make sure. If your package is refused, we’ll issue a refund for your order minus shipping when we receive it.

Shipping Liberator Products

All Liberator products are made to order and ship directly from Liberator via UPS Ground. Most Liberator orders take around 3 business days to a week to ship, but some can take as long as 3+ weeks to ship. All Liberator sex pillows are compressed and shipped in plain, brown packaging that doesn’t give away their contents or where they came from. If your order includes items other than Liberator gear, they will ship separately and probably arrive before the Liberator gear.

International Shipping

We only ship within the US.

Email Privacy

We know that many families have shared family email accounts and/or don’t want unsolicited emails arriving in their mailbox trying to sell them another vibrator. You’ll only receive two emails from us when you place an order with us under normal circumstances.

  1. First Email: Immediately after placing your order, you’ll receive a confirmation email stating that we received your order. If you do not receive an email immediately, check your spam and junk folders or promotions tab (Gmail users) for an email from [email protected].
  2. Second Email: Within a few business days, you’ll receive a second email that gives you a heads-up that your order has shipped. It’ll contain the tracking number(s), so you will know when your package(s) will arrive. If you do not receive it within 4 business days, search for an email from [email protected].

You might receive an additional email or two if your order includes a Liberator product in addition to other marital aids since Liberator products take longer to ship and ship separately. Also, you’ll probably receive order confirmation and shipping confirmation emails from PayPal when we send our order and shipping confirmations.

Note: Both emails include the store name and an itemized list of the products in your order. This is necessary in order for you to have proof of purchase and is required by all manufacturers of products that include a warranty when making a warranty claim.

After you’ve received the second email, you won’t hear from us again unless you join our newsletter.

Pastor and Group Discounts

We give pastor and group discounts for marriage intimacy classes and conferences. Contact us for more details.

Where did the name “MarriedDance” originate?

Did you mean “Marriage Dance?” No, the phrase “married dance” was a fun term my spouse and I used when talking about having sex when the kids were around. So, sex was referred to as doing the “married dance.”