Get help buying a vibrator for the first time from a Christian perspective. This is a picture of a couple in bed with the sheets pulled up to their noses.

How-To Choose Your First Vibrator

Advice from a Christian perspective.

Choosing a vibrator, especially if you’ve never used one before, can be difficult. Not being able to see and hold them in person makes it even harder to choose, even for experienced users. One of the most common questions we get asked goes something like, “We’re Christian and just found your store. This is our first time purchasing a vibrator. Which one should we choose?”

This is a challenging question to answer without knowing intimate details about your likes, dislikes, and reason for introducing a vibrator into your marriage bed, and details about your anatomy and sexual history. We obviously don’t know these details, nor do we want to, so the next best thing is to give you the information you need to buy the best vibrator for you.

How to Use This Guide

This guide is lengthy, so we split it into a few sections and created a JUMP TO list that takes you straight to the part you’re interested in. This guide includes every type of vibrator we sell, with a brief description of what each does, common ways Christian couples incorporate it into their marriage bed, and a few recommendations to make choosing easy.

Vibrators

Our vibrator selection is organized into 13 categories. Below, we double-click each type of vibrator and give you the details you need to decide whether it’s a good fit for your marriage bed, plus a few hand-picked ones we use or would use ourselves to make choosing easy.

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Wand Vibrators

Wand vibrators have a massage head that produces intense, low-frequency vibration over a broad surface that penetrates your body deeply, and are used by wives for clitoral stimulation that significantly enhances foreplay or intercourse with their husbands.

USAGE TIPS:

  • Get there reliably with less effort: Their vibration intensity is ideal for wives who struggle to reach orgasm or take longer than they’d like to climax.
  • Anorgasmic wife: Most wand massagers’ stimulation is so intense that they force you to climax and are wonderful marital aids for wives who’ve never orgasmed despite their best efforts or women who take medication with side effects that make it difficult to climax.
  • Quickey booster: Sometimes you just want a quickey with your husband, but want to make sure you get there, too.
  • Go Deeper: Everything You Need to Know About Wand Vibrators, our definitive guide

Recommended Wand Vibrators:

Magic Wand Original Vibrator

(18 customer reviews)
$89.95

Legendary, powerful external stimulation that sets the bar for other massagers! Loved by millions of women for over 50 years.

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Magic Wand Original Vibrator

Le Wand Plug-In Vibrating Massager

(1 customer review)
$129.99

Broad, ultra-powerful vibration in a wide range of pulsing patterns and intensities. Plug-in design with a long 8-foot power cord.

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Le Wand Plug-In Vibrating Massager

Magic Wand Rechargeable Vibrator

(7 customer reviews)
$169.95

Legendary Magic Wand power, now rechargeable and with a much broader range of vibration intensities and patterns than the Original.

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Magic Wand Rechargeable Vibrator

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Bullet Vibrators

Bullet vibrators are compact, versatile little vibrators that are used for external stimulation, such as nipples, clitoris, testicles, penis, and other erogenous zones that the wife or husband uses to enhance foreplay or sex together.

USAGE TIPS:

  • Clitoral stimulation: The wife or her husband presses the bullet vibrator against her clitoris during foreplay or intercourse, adding additional stimulation needed for her to climax.
  • Nipple, erogenous zone stimulation: Rub the vibrator over your spouse’s nipples or inner thighs during foreplay to help them get turned on and ready for more.
  • Better BJ or handjob: Gently press the vibrator against your husband’s testicles while giving him a blowjob or handjob during foreplay.
  • Go Deeper: Everything You Need to Know About Bullet Vibrators, our definitive guide

Recommended Bullet Vibrators:

Ultra Bullet Quiet Powerful Vibrator

(6 customer reviews)
$49.95

20 intense, continuous, and pulsing vibration modes, a flexible silicone body, and a quiet design.

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Ultra Bullet Quiet Powerful Vibrator

Dame Dip Bullet Vibrator

(3 customer reviews)
$44.95

Simple silicone design with 5 quiet, continuous vibration intensities. Great for beginners.

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Dame Dip Bullet Vibrator

We-Vibe Tango X Powerful Bullet Vibrator

(1 customer review)
$85.00

Super-rumbly, highly regarded vibration quality in 7 vibration patterns and 8 intensities.

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We-Vibe Tango X Powerful Bullet Vibrator

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Clitoris Cuddlers

Clitoris cuddler vibrators fit in the palm of your hand and are shaped to cup or cover your clitoris with broad stimulation. Wives typically use these vibrator to add clitoral stimulation while making love to their husbands.

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Recommended Clitoris Cuddlers:

We-Vibe Touch X Powerful Clitoral Vibrator

(5 customer reviews)
$109.00

Fits in the palm of your hand and cups your clitoris with quiet, broad, rumbling vibration.

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We-Vibe Touch X Powerful Clitoral Vibrator

Je Joue ILY Pebble Soft, Powerful Vibrator

(1 customer review)
$39.99

Reach climax during foreplay or sex with a squishy, pebble-shaped clitoral vibrator.

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Je Joue ILY Pebble Soft, Powerful Vibrator

Lelo Lily 3 Personal Massager

$159.00

Ultra-rumbly vibration with a very wide range of patterns and intensities that’s nearly silent.

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Lelo Lily 3 Personal Massager

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Air-Pulse Vibrators

Air Pulse clitoral stimulators cup your clitoris and engulf it with touchless pressure pulses and gentle suction that many wives say produces the most intense orgasms they’ve ever experienced. Most women use them to climax during foreplay, sex, or to finish them off after intercourse.

USAGE TIPS:

  • Get there fast and reliably: These sexual aids’ powerful clitoral stimulation is excellent at helping you climax almost every time.
  • Very satisfying: Their contactless pressure pulses and gentle suction create a unique, oral-like sensation that many wives say gives them the most intense, satisfying orgasms they’ve ever experienced.
  • Go Deeper: Everything You Need to Know About Air Pulse Clitoral Stimulators, our definitive guide

Recommended Air-Pulse Vibrators:

Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 3 Clitoral Stimulator

(2 customer reviews)
$59.95

Engulf your clitoris with 11 touchless pressure wave patterns and 12 vibration modes.

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Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 3 Clitoral Stimulator

Rosales Rose Clitoral Suction Vibrator

(2 customer reviews)
$49.97

Stimulate your clitoris with rapid pressure pulses and the surrounding area with its gently vibrating rose petals.

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Rosales Rose Clitoral Suction Vibrator

Womanizer Enhance 2-in-1 Pleasure Air and Vibration Clitoral Stimulator

$169.00

The combination of its broad pleasure air clitoral stimulation and rumbly vibration helps you get there most of the time.

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Womanizer Enhance 2-in-1 Pleasure Air and Vibration Clitoral Stimulator

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Couples’ Vibrators

Couples’ vibrators typically have a “U” shape with a vibrator at each end, and the wife wears the smaller end inside her vagina during intercourse with her husband so that the internal arm stimulates her G-spot while the external arm presses against her clitoris and vibrates it.

USAGE TIPS:

  • Enhance sex: Wear the vibrator while making love to your husband so that it creates a tight fit for him and generates extra G-spot and clitoral stimulation for you.
  • Thrilling foreplay: Wear it under panties while giving your husband a BJ or handjob during foreplay so you have fun, too. Bonus points if your hubby can control the vibrator remotely.
  • Go Deeper: Everything You Need to Know About Couples’ Vibrators, our definitive guide

Recommended Couples’ Vibrators

We-Vibe Chorus Couple’s Vibrator

(1 customer review)
$219.00

Enhance intercourse with added G-spot and clitoral stimulation from its comfortable, adjustable design and rumbly vibration.

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We-Vibe Chorus Couple's Vibrator

We-Vibe Sync Go Couple’s Vibrator

(1 customer review)
$109.00

An entry-level couple’s vibrator with 9 remote-controllable, rumbly vibration modes and a discreet storage case.

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We-Vibe Sync Go Couple's Vibrator

Lelo Tiani 3 Remote Controlled Couple’s Vibrator

$179.00

Enhance lovemaking with broad, ultra-low-frequency clitoral stimulation and a slim G-spot vibrator.

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Lelo Tiani 3 Remote Controlled Couple's Vibrator

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Rabbit Vibrators

Rabbit vibrators have a curved shaft with a vibrator located in the tip that stimulates the wife’s G-spot while the smaller, vibrating external arm stimulates her clitoris.

USAGE TIPS:

  • Dual pleasure: Their simultaneous internal and external stimulation is fantastic for helping her get really turned on during foreplay or having a blended (G-spot and clitoral) orgasm before or after sex with her hubby.

Recommended Rabbit Vibrators:

We-Vibe Nova 2 Clitoral and G-Spot Vibrator

(3 customer reviews)
$159.00

Adjustable shaft bends to fit you, and its flexible clitoral stimulator stays in constant contact with your body.

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We-Vibe Nova 2 Clitoral and G-Spot Vibrator

Hera Petit Squishy Rabbit Vibrator

$119.95

This petite massager has a soft, squishy body, a flexible external stimulator, and a targeting G-spot stimulator with rumbly vibration.

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Hera Petit Squishy Rabbit Vibrator

Lovense Nora Clitoral and G-Spot Vibrator

$139.00

Its rotating shaft and powerful internal and external motors combine for incredible stimulation.

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Lovense Nora Clitoral and G-Spot Vibrator

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Finger Vibrators

Finger vibrators are small vibrators with a loop that slips over your finger(s) or are shaped to fit securely between two fingers and stimulate external body parts such as your clitoris or nipples.

USAGE TIPS:

  • Better sex: The majority of wives use finger vibrators to stimulate their clitoris during sex with their husbands. Their finger-hugging design makes them easier to fold than other small vibrators.

OhMiBod Lovelife Rev Finger Vibrator

$74.95

Ergonomic finger loop lets you grip it easily while rubbing its quiet, rumbly vibrations over your body.

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OhMiBod Lovelife Rev Finger Vibrator

Dame Fin Ergonomic Finger Vibrator

$59.95

Nestles between two fingers and seamlessly adds clitoral stimulation to lovemaking.

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Dame Fin Ergonomic Finger Vibrator

Charged Fing O Rumbly Vibrator

$57.95

Slips over a finger and delivers intense clitoral stimulation during sex with your husband.

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Charged Fing O Rumbly Vibrator

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G-spot Vibrators

G-spot vibrators have a curved shaft that’s designed to reach a wife’s G-spot and stimulate it with vibrations from its internal motor located around the tip.

USAGE TIPS:

  • G-spot stimulation: Insert the vibrator into your wife’s vagina during foreplay and stimulate her G-spot during foreplay. Use the vibrator on its own or while manually stimulating her clitoris with your fingers or while giving her cunnilingus.
  • Clitoral stimulation: Many wives also take advantage of their curved shaft and vibrating tip to stimulate their clitoris while making love to their husband.
  • Go Deeper: Everything You Need to Know About G-Spot Vibrators, our definitive guide

Recommended G-spot Vibrators:

Je Joue ILY Wand Warming G-spot Vibrator

$49.99

Deep, rumbly sensation and gentle warmth in a petite wand made for beginners.

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Je Joue ILY Wand Warming G-spot Vibrator

Pillow Talk Sassy G-Spot Vibrator

$79.95

Simple, petite design with an intense, variable, continuous-speed vibrator.

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Pillow Talk Sassy G-Spot Vibrator

We-Vibe Rave 2 Powerful Bendable G-Spot Vibrator

$149.00

The bendable shaft with ridges and 2 motors creates unique stimulation as it twists back and forth.

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We-Vibe Rave 2 Powerful Bendable G-Spot Vibrator

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Panty Vibrators

Panty vibrators either attach to or fit under your panties and stimulate your clitoris or G-spot while being controlled remotely.

USAGE TIPS:

  • Extra hot date night: Wear a panty vibrator while out on a date with your husband and let him control it remotely.
  • Better foreplay: Use vibrating panties during foreplay to stimulate yourself while giving your husband a blowjob or handjob.

Recommended Panty Vibrators:

We-Vibe Jive Lite Remote Controlled G-spot Vibrator

$109.00

Beginner remote-controlled, wearable G-spot vibrator with 10 rumbly vibration modes.

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We-Vibe Jive Lite Remote Controlled G-spot Vibrator

Satisfyer Sexy Secret Remote Controlled Panty Vibrator

$79.95

Attaches to your panties with a magnetic clip and lets you control its rumbly vibrations remotely using the Satisfyer app.

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Satisfyer Sexy Secret Remote Controlled Panty Vibrator

We-Vibe Moxie+ Remote Controlled Panty Vibrator

(1 customer review)
$149.00

Spice up date night or foreplay with this remote-controlled, hands-free panty vibrator with a secure magnetic clip.

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We-Vibe Moxie+ Remote Controlled Panty Vibrator

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Pocket Rockets

Pocket rocket vibrators focus all their vibration on a single point at the tip and are ideal for external stimulation during foreplay. The tip of these massagers typically includes a soft textured silicone cover.

USAGE TIPS:

  • Focused clitoral stimulation: Most wives use pocket rockets to stimulate their clitoris with intense vibration during foreplay with their husband.

Recommended Pocket Rocket Vibrators:

Rose Revitalize Massage Kit

$24.95

Powerful, pinpoint stimulation with 3 unique silicone attachments.

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Rose Revitalize Massage Kit

Original Pocket Rocket Vibrator

$44.95

Focused, intense external stimulation with a variable-speed twist control.

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Original Pocket Rocket Vibrator

Pocket Rocket Elite Rechargeable Silicone Clitoral Vibrator

$74.97

Quiet, powerful vibrations in 7 pulsing patterns, plus a removable silicone sleeve with a wavy texture.

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Pocket Rocket Elite Rechargeable Silicone Clitoral Vibrator

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Classic, Traditional Vibrators

Classic, traditional-style vibrators are what most people think of when they hear the word vibrator. Their long, smooth body and tapered tip design have been around for a long time.

USAGE TIPS:

  • Foreplay: Use the tip of the vibrator to stimulate your clitoris or nipples during foreplay. For broader stimulation, press the body of the vibrator against your vulva.
  • Intercourse: Press the tip of the vibrator against your clitoris while having sex with your husband and add additional clitoral stimulation to lovemaking.

Recommended Classic-Style Vibrators:

Le Wand Baton Soft Tip Vibrator

$99.00

Coated in smooth silicone, with a flexible tip, it vibrates in 15 modes and 6 intensities.

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Le Wand Baton Soft Tip Vibrator

ffix Bullet XL Vibrator

(1 customer review)
$32.97

Surprisingly powerful battery-operated vibrator with 10 vibration modes and no charging required.

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ffix Bullet XL Vibrator

60-Day Risk-Free Traditional-Style Vibrator Pilot Program

(5 customer reviews)
Original price was: $28.97.Current price is: $19.97.

Our Traditional-Style Vibrator Pilot beginners kit includes everything you need to experiment with using a vibrator to add intimacy in your marriage bed. Try it for 60 days, and if it's not for you, we'll refund your credit card (including shipping) with absolutely no questions asked, and you get to keep the vibrator.

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60-Day Risk-Free Traditional-Style Vibrator Pilot Program

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Vibrating Rings

Vibrating penis rings are stretchy rings your husband wears around the base of his penis or around the base of his penis and testicles, with one or two vibrators attached to them.

USAGE TIPS:

  • Enhance clitoral stimulation: Have your husband wear a vibrating ring during sex so it stimulates your clitoris when he’s completely inside you. Vibrating rings work exceptionally well during wife-on-top sex.
  • Last longer: The intense vibration tends to numb the husband a little, which allows him to last a little longer during sex.
  • Thicker, firmer erection: Some vibrating rings squeeze tight enough that it helps your husband have a girthier, stronger erection. This varies by ring and person. Check out our non-vibrating penis rings if you’re specifically interested in having a thicker, firmer erection, as they work better for this.
  • Go Deeper: Everything You Need to Know About Vibrating Penis Rings, our definitive guide

Recommended Vibrating Rings:

Lelo Tor 3 Vibrating Penis Ring

$169.00

Its vibrations range from a gentle purr to roaring pulses and deliver broad clitoral stimulation from its smooth silicone body.

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Lelo Tor 3 Vibrating Penis Ring

Je Joue Mio Vibrating Ring

$109.00

Quiet, rumbly vibrating ring fits comfortably while enhancing clitoral stimulation during lovemaking.

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Je Joue Mio Vibrating Ring

We-Vibe Pivot 2 Vibrating Ring

$119.00

Broad, rumbly vibration and a thick, comfortable ring unlock more enjoyment during sex.

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We-Vibe Pivot 2 Vibrating Ring

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Tongue Vibrators

Tongue vibrators are either shaped like a tongue or fit in your mouth and vibrate your tongue.

USAGE TIPS:

  • Clitoral, nipple stimulation: Stimulate your wife’s nipple or clitoris during foreplay.

Recommended Tongue Vibrators:

Scioness Sucking and Licking Clitoral Stimulator

$109.97

Creates a suction around your clitoris while the tongue licks and flicks it.

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Scioness Sucking and Licking Clitoral Stimulator

Tongue Star Oral Sex Vibrator

(6 customer reviews)
$16.95

More sensation for your spouse. Vibration built into every lick.

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Tongue Star Oral Sex Vibrator

Her Ultimate Tongue-Gasm Vibrator

$119.95

Soft tongue-shaped stimulator vibrates in 7 constant and pulsing patterns.

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Her Ultimate Tongue-Gasm Vibrator

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