Choosing Your First Vibrator

Choosing a vibrator can be a daunting task, especially if you have little or no experience using one. We’re often asked, “This is our first time buying a vibrator. Which one should we start with?” This isn’t an easy question to answer because every couple’s likes and dislikes in their marriage bed are different.

To help answer this question, we’ve put together a list of useful tips and information about each type of vibrator we sell to help you make a better, more informed buying decision based on your likes and dislikes in your marriage bed.

Keep These Important Tips in Mind

You Get What You Pay For: Higher quality vibrators use high quality motors and materials which costs more. They can also vibrate in patterns that rumble, escelate, and pulse until your heart’s content. Cheap vibrators get the job done too, but if you want quality that lasts, invest in a better vibrator. It’s WELL worth it!

Vibrator Care Tips: If you want your vibrator to last, ALWAYS clean it before and after use, and let it air dry overnight. If your vibrator includes removable batteries, take them out while storing your vibrator to prevent battery power and acid leaks.

Body Massagers

The powerful vibration from the head of body massagers work wonders on sore muscles, but that’s not all body massagers are useful for. They’re also an excellent choice for clitoral stimulation. The powerful vibration of a body massager applied to her vulva resonates deep into the internal parts of her clitoris and is almost guaranteed to give her a strong orgasm.

USAGE TIPS:

  • Set the mood: Nothing sets the mood like a long, relaxing, sensual massage. A body massager’s deep penetrating vibrations take some of the work out of giving a great sensual massage.
  • External stimulation: Turn a relaxing massage into an erotic sensual one by rubbing this body massager on your spouse’s erotic zones.
  • Internal stimulation: Turn a body massager into an internal vibrator by adding one of its attachments. Sold separately.
  • During intercourse: Use a body massager during intercourse to stimulate the clitoris or other erotic zones to add more stimulation. Our Liberator Axis is specifically designed to hold the body massager in just the right spot for AMAZING clitoral stimulation during rear-entry intercourse positions.
  • Orgasm together: Do you have trouble achieving simultaneous orgasms? Use a body massager to stimulate her to the brink of orgasm and then switch to intercourse to orgasm together as a couple.
  • Sore muscles: Sex isn’t as fun if you don’t feel good. Use this body massager’s deep penetrating vibrations to help relieve sore muscles too.

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Bullet Vibrators

The compact design and POWERFUL vibrations of bullet vibrators make them a popular choice for our customers. Bullet vibrators are great for all kinds of external stimulation both spouses will enjoy, from sensual massages to clitoral and testicle stimulation.

USAGE TIPS:

  • Clitoral stimulation: The compact and powerful vibration from bullet vibrators are great for stimulating her clitoris before, during, or after intercourse.
  • Useful for both spouses: Bullet vibrators are not just for her. They can also be used to stimulate his erotic zones too.
  • During intercourse: Use a bullet vibrator during intercourse to stimulate the clitoris or other erotic zones to add more stimulation.
  • Fellatio: Place a bullet vibrator in your hand and then cup his testicles with it while giving him fellatio.

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Clitoris Cuddlers

Clitoris Cuddlers’ SOLE purpose is to stimulate her clitoris. Some are long with a “cup” on the end that engulfs her clitoris with amazing vibrations, and others fit perfectly in the palm of your hand with just the right curve to reach your clitoris during foreplay or intercourse.

USAGE TIIPS:

  • Get in the mood: Use a clitoris cuddler to stimulate her clitoris, and quickly get her aroused.
  • During intercourse: Use a clitoris cuddler during intercourse to stimulate the clitoris and add more stimulation. Clittoris cuddlers work great in the missionary sex position.
  • Orgasm together: Do you have trouble achieving simultaneous orgasms? Use a clitoris cuddler to stimulate her to the brink of orgasm, and then switch to intercourse to orgasm together as a couple.

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Couple’s Vibrators

Wear them WHILE making love for additional g-spot and clitoral stimulation during intercourse.

USAGE TIPS:

  • Get in the mood: Use a couple’s vibrator to stimulate her clitoris, and quickly get her aroused.
  • During intercourse: Use a couple’s vibrator according to its directions during intercourse to stimulate the clitoris and g-spot and add more stimulation.
  • Long distance sex: Couple’s vibrators such as the We-Vibe can be controlled via a smartphone app. When your spouse is out of town, let them remotely control the vibrator from their smart phone.

 


 

Dual Action Vibrators

Specifically designed for simultaneous g-spot AND clitoral stimulation delivering you to the king of all pleasure – blended orgasms.

USAGE TIPS:

  • Set the mood: Once your wife is relaxed, rub this vibrator in or around her erotic zones to help get her aroused and ready for sex.
  • Foreplay: Use a rabbit vibrator to stimulate her g-spot and clitoris during foreplay and give her a few orgasms before intercourse.
  • Orgasm together: Do you have trouble achieving simultaneous orgasms? Use a dual-action vibrator to stimulate her to the brink of orgasm and then switch to intercourse and orgasm together as a couple.

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Finger Vibrators

These vibrators are meant to be worn on the tip of your finger and provide external stimulation.

USAGE TIPS:

  • Set the mood: Once your spouse is relaxed, rub a finger vibrator around his/her erotic zones to help get him/her aroused and ready for sex.
  • Clitoral stimulation: The compact and powerful vibration from finger vibrators are great for stimulating her clitoris before, during, or after intercourse.
  • Useful for both spouses: This finger vibrator is not just for her. It can also be used to stimulate his erotic zones too.
  • During intercourse: Use a finger vibrator during intercourse to stimulate her clitoris or other erotic zones and add more stimulation. Finger vibrators work great in the missionary sex position.
  • Orgasm together: Do you have trouble achieving simultaneous orgasms? Use a finger vibrator to stimulate her to the brink of orgasm, and then switch to intercourse to orgasm together as a couple.

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G-Spot Vibrators

Their curved shape and wide tip are perfectly designed to reach and stimulate her g-spot.

USAGE TIPS:

  • Set the mood: Once your spouse is relaxed, rub this vibrator around his/her erotic zones to help get him/her aroused and ready for sex.
  • Useful for both spouses: This vibrator is not just for her. It can also be used to stimulate his external erotic zones too.
  • Internal stimulation: Once she’s very aroused, use a g-spot vibrator to stimulate her g-spot.
  • Orgasm together: Do you have trouble achieving simultaneous orgasms? Use a g-spot vibrator to stimulate her to the brink of orgasm and then switch to intercourse to orgasm together as a couple.

 


 

Hands-Free Vibrators

Wear a hands-free vibrator like panties and enjoy hands-free stimulation.

USAGE TIPS:

  • Tease her silly: Have your wife wear these vibrating panties around the house and randomly turn it on using the remote.
  • Hot date night: Have your wife wear vibrating panties for date night while you control the remote.
  • Oral sex: Why should he have all the fun when you’re giving fellatio? Wear a hands free vibrator while giving your husband fellatio so both of you can enjoy.

 


 

Modern Vibrators

These vibrators come in all shapes, sizes, and textures.

USAGE TIPS:

  • Set the mood: Once your spouse is relaxed, rub a vibrator in or around his/her erotic zones to help get him/her aroused and ready for sex.
  • During intercourse: Use a vibrator during intercourse to stimulate the clitoris or other erotic zones and add more stimulation.
  • Orgasm together: Do you have trouble achieving simultaneous orgasms? Use a vibrator to stimulate her to the brink of orgasm and then switch to intercourse to orgasm together as a couple.

 


 

Pocket Rockets

Designed for powerful, pinpoint, external stimulation.

USAGE TIPS:

  • Set the mood: Once your spouse is relaxed, rub a pocket rocket vibrator around his/her erotic zones to help get him/her aroused and ready for sex.
  • Orgasm together: Do you have trouble achieving simultaneous orgasms? Use a pocket rocket vibrator to stimulate her to the brink of orgasm and then switch to intercourse to orgasm together as a couple.

 


 

Traditional Vibrator

The original straight, smooth shape of early vibrators. These are great for someone looking for a simple non-phallic vibrator.

USAGE TIPS:

  • Set the mood: Once your spouse is relaxed, rub a vibrator in or around his/her erotic zones to help get him/her aroused and ready for sex.
  • During intercourse: Use a vibrator during intercourse to stimulate the clitoris or other erotic zones and add more stimulation.
  • Orgasm together: Do you have trouble achieving simultaneous orgasms? Use a vibrator to stimulate her to the brink of orgasm and then switch to intercourse to orgasm together as a couple.

Try our risk-free Vibrator Pilot Program. Our Vibrator Pilot kit includes everything you need to experiment with using a vibrator to add intimacy in your marriage bed (multi-speed vibrator, lube, batteries, antibacterial toy cleaner, and a Vibrators 101 Guide to guide the way). Try it for 60 days, and if it’s not for you we’ll refund your credit card (including shipping) with absolutely no questions asked.

 


 

Vibrating Penis Rings

By far our most popular category of vibrators. Vibrating penis rings fit snugly around the base of his penis and deliver simultaneous, hands-free stimulation to his shaft and her clitoris during lovemaking. It’s a win-win for both of you. He doesn’t feel threatened by it, and you get AMAZING clitoral stimulation while making love.

USAGE TIPS:

  • Get in the mood: Use the vibrating portion of the ring to stimulate her clitoris and quickly get her aroused before you strap it on.
  • A real live vibrator!: Wear it during intercourse so your wife can get the best of both worlds; a vibrator and her husband’s penis.

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