Several women have reached out for recommendations of sex toys that have gentle stimulation that slowly builds up to an orgasm. Most sexual aids do their best to deliver maximum stimulation for a quick, powerful climax, but few are designed for a slow build-up to orgasm.
We did a lot of research and a bunch of testing and created this list of sex toys for women who prefer a slower, sensual experience so they can take their time and enjoy the journey to orgasm with their spouse.
The list is in no particular order, and each sexual aid includes tips for a slow, relaxing orgasm.
Lelo Sila Cruise Touchless Sonic Wave Clitoral Stimulator
Sonic wave, also called pressure wave, air pulse, or pleasure-air stimulators use rapid pressure pulses to stimulate the clitoris instead of vibration. This unique, touchless stimulation is commonly known to quickly and easily bring a woman to orgasm, but Lelo Sila Cruise’s large mouth and gentle sonic waves allow drawn-out sessions that lead to deeply intense orgasms.
Press Sila Cruise against your clitoris and engulf it with heavenly stimulation during foreplay or while having sex with your husband in the Dragonfly or Standing Missionary sex position.
Eroscillator 2 Plus Vibrator
This very odd-looking vibrator is fantastic for clitoral stimulation that slowly builds up sexual tension and released as a satisfying orgasm. Eroscillator 2 Plus has an incredible soft finger attachment that feels like a marshmallow with tough skin, so its oscillating motion feels like a smooth, soft finger rubbing your clitoris really fast.
Use the soft finger attachment to rub your clitoris during foreplay or sex with your husband.
We-Vibe Nova 2 Vibrator
Nova 2 simultaneously stimulates your G-spot and clitoris with its innovative vibrators. The clitoral stimulator bends in a way that keeps constant contact with your clitoris while you move the internal vibrator in and out over your G-spot.
Use this marital aid during foreplay. Begin on the lowest vibration setting and only increase the speed when your body screams for more. Add intimacy by laying in bed with your husband by your side and letting him use the vibrator on you with your guidance.
We-Vibe Touch X Vibrator
Cup your clitoris with Touch X and enjoy its broad, rumbly stimulation during foreplay or sex.
Clitoral stimulation from this vibrator, combined with penetration from a dildo or your husband’s penis when you’re ready to orgasm, is incredible!
Lelo Mona 2 G-Spot Vibrator
Mona 2’s vibrations go from a gentle flutter to satisfying pulses and are perfect for slowly reaching climax. The curved shaft works well for G-spot or clitoral stimulation.
This sexual aid gives you options. Use it to stimulate your G-spot or clitoris, or alternate between both of them during foreplay with your man.
Lelo Smart Wand 2 Medium Massager
Wand massagers’ super-powerful vibrations are normally used for quick, powerful orgasms, but the Smart Wand 2 Medium’s wide range of vibration intensities is ideal for a slow orgasm.
- Begin by rubbing it around your inner thighs and near your clitoris while on the lowest setting.
- Next, press it against your clitoris and move it up and down your vulva while it’s still on the lowest setting.
- When you can’t take it anymore and need more stimulation, leave the ball pressed against your clitoris while still on the lowest setting.
- Slowly increase vibration intensity when you need it until you come.
This technique works well combined with penetration from a dildo or your husband’s penis when you’re ready to orgasm, too.
We-Vibe X Bullet Vibrator
A bullet vibrator, such as the We-Vibe X, is a very versatile marital aid that can be used in a variety of ways to bring on an orgasm during foreplay or intercourse slowly. We-Vibe X’s wide range of vibration speeds makes it an ideal choice.
Lay in bed with your husband by your side while you press the vibrator against your clitoris, and he uses two fingers to make a come-hither motion to stimulate your G-spot. Include a makeout session for a romantic and orgasmic encounter.
Zumio i Clitoral Stimulator
Zumio i’s flat spoon tip and rotating motion are ideal for slow orgasms. The oscillating tip mimics a finger rubbing your clitoris.
This sexual aid works well during foreplay while being penetrated by a dildo or vibrator, or while having sex with your husband.
Lelo Tor 3 Vibrating Ring
Lelo Tor 3 is a comfortable vibrating penis ring to wear that has a large contact area and a broad range of vibration intensities. It’s great for ladies who want to orgasm during intercourse.
- Have your hubby wear a Tor 3 around the base of his penis while you mount him in the Cowgirl sex position.
- Remotely control the vibration intensity using the Lelo app and begin on the lowest setting.
- Grind your clitoris against the vibrator and slowly increase the vibration intensity at your ideal pace for a slow, sensual orgasm.
Bonus Tip
Kudos to you for making it this far in this article! Here’s a bonus technique that can be used with all of the sexual aids in this list to extend your journey to climax and make it more explosive and satisfying.
Start-Stop Method
The start-stop method, also called edging, is like riding a roller coaster into orgasmic bliss. It’s really simple. When you feel like an orgasm is beginning to brew or your body is begging you to turn up the vibration intensity, pull back the stimulation a bit, or stop it altogether. Give yourself a few minutes to cool down and then resume at a slightly lower level of stimulation than when you stepped back.
This start-stop method will supercharge your orgasm, but be careful; if you do the edging method too many times in a session, you might lose your orgasm completely, and that would be very frustrating!
So, try the start-stop method a few times and see how it works out.
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