Wand vibrators are fantastic sex toys that stimulate the clitoris and pretty much guarantee you’ll have an orgasm or two! Read on, and this guide expands on what a body massager is, what it stimulates, how to use it to enhance foreplay and sex, and which products we recommend.
What is a body massager?
A wand vibrator typically has a long handle and vibrating ball with a flexible neck on one end. What’s unique about this sexual aid is the head of a vibrating wand typically vibrates at a powerful low frequency, generating deeply penetrating stimulation that other vibrators can’t.
What areas do body massagers stimulate?
Personal massagers are excellent clitoral stimulators because they produce broad, powerful, rumbly vibrations that stimulate the entire clitoris and surrounding area. Wand massagers are also used to stimulate the underside of the penis and help it become extra firm.
Women who have difficulty having an orgasm or take a long time to orgasm significantly benefit from body massagers’ powerful stimulation. Over the years, we’ve heard from many women who thanked us for recommending a body massager. Most of those wives rarely had orgasms, and one of them told us she never had an orgasm during 30 years of marriage! All of those ladies finally found a marital aid that helped them orgasm regularly and reliably with their spouses.
How do I use a body massager during foreplay?
The most common manner a massager is used is to stimulate the vulva and clitoris to orgasm during foreplay. All you do is lay in bed with your spouse and rub it up and down your vulva. Begin on the lowest vibration intensity and adjust the vibration speed as needed. If the stimulation on the lowest setting is too intense, place a folded hand towel over your vulva and use it as a buffer until you get used to the powerful stimulation.
Another fun way to use a massager is to rub it slowly up and down the underside of your husband’s penis during foreplay. The stimulation will help him get a stronger erection and possibly allow him to last a little longer during sex because the strong vibration has a temporary numbing effect.
The wife can also straddle a sex toy mount such as a Liberator Wanda and enjoy powerful clitoral stimulation while giving your husband a blowjob or handjob.
How do I use a body massager during sex?
A body massager, especially one with a curved handle, can also be used to stimulate your clitoris while making love to your husband. Here are a few sex positions that work well for stimulating your clitoris with a wand massager during intercourse.
Place the vibrator between you and your husband and press it against your clitoris while making love in the Super 8 sex position. Your body shape might limit or prevent you from using a massager in this pose. If it does, give the following three positions a try.
Dragonfly is the best sex position for using a massager to stimulate your clitoris during sex. It has plenty of access for either of you to press the massager against your clitoris during lovemaking.
Standing Missionary is another excellent sex position couples can enjoy while rubbing a body massager over her clitoris during lovemaking.
Combine the fantastic g-spot stimulation of the Doggy Style sex position with the powerful clitoral stimulation from rubbing a wand vibrator on your clitoris for a wild orgasmic ride!
What body massagers do you recommend?
The Original Magic Wand is the gold standard of body massagers. It plugs directly into an outlet and vibrates in 3 ultra-powerful intensities. The only downside of this marital aid is it’s loud.
The Magic Wand Rechargeable is an improved design of the Original Magic Wand. It’s just as powerful and has a few more vibration intensities to choose from.
The FemmeFunn Ultra Wand isn’t as powerful as the other wands on this list, but its rechargeable motor and quiet operation make up for it. It’s powerful enough to get the job done, trust me!
What’s great about the Le Wand Plug-In vibrator is its powerful motor, great design, and several available attachments that produce unique clitoral and g-spot stimulation.
Thanks for the tips!
My lovely wife and I ordered a full-size Le Wand Plug-In from Married Dance yesterday. We’re in our mid-thirties, but in a busy and exhausted stage of life with young daughters and work.
This is our second vibrator, the 60-day traditional vibrator trial being our first. I’m hoping this toy makes sex more accessible since we’re often too wiped out for sex before bed. I can’t wait to explore together with this major upgrade!