Bullet vibrators are small, versatile sex toys that are great for stimulating both spouse’s external erogenous zones such as breasts, nipples, clitoris, or testicles during foreplay and intercourse.
Makeup of a Bullet Vibrator
Most bullet vibrators are 1-3 inch long cylinders that are about the size of your thumb and include the motor, batteries, and controls inside the small vibrator. Some bullets are connected to a battery pack and controller via a tiny wire, and others are controlled via wireless remote control or smartphone.
What Is a Bullet Vibrator Used For?
A bullet vibrator can be used in many ways to add external stimulation to foreplay activities or intercourse. Its compact design makes it ideal for breast, nipple, clitoral, or testicular stimulation.
How to Use a Bullet Vibrator
We’ve put together some Christian-friendly tips and techniques for using a bullet vibrator to add intimacy to your marriage bed and spice things up without cheapening sex. If you have any additional tips or techniques, please leave them in the comments below so others can enjoy them too.
Foreplay
For Her
Breast and Nipple Stimulation: When a woman’s breasts are stimulated the hormone oxytocin is released into her system and helps her feel the sense of bonding and connection with her husband. Oxytocin has also been shown to intensify a woman’s orgasm.
Take a bullet vibrator, set it on a low speed, and gently rub it over your wife’s breasts while kissing and caressing them during foreplay. Start with the outer regions of her breasts and slowly move in towards her nipples.
Clitoral Stimulation: Give your fingers a break while manually stimulating her or take a breather while giving your wife cunnilingus and supplement the stimulation with a bullet vibrator. Set the bullet on a slow speed, and rub it above or on either side of her clitoris to start. After she’s become very aroused, slide the massager directly over her clitoris without stopping directly over it. When she can’t take it anymore, apply direct, clitoral stimulation on a high speed until she’s satisfied.
Tip:
- Apply a little water-based lube to her clitoris and surrounding area. A dry vibrator sliding over her clitoris doesn’t feel good and might irritate it.
- Ladies, your husband doesn’t know what speed or motion feels good. Let him know what feels good and what doesn’t, and don’t be afraid to take his hand or the vibrator and show him what you like.
Kiki 2’s flat head makes it ideal for stimulating your wife’s clitoris while giving her cunnilingus or manually stimulating her.
For Him
Frenulum Stimulation: Press the vibrator against the frenulum of your husband’s penis and move it up and down a little bit. The frenulum is where your husband’s foreskin meets the underside of his penis shaft. It looks like a small “V” just below the head on the underside of his penis.
Testicular Stimulation: Here’s a great way to add lots of stimulation while giving your husband a handjob or fellatio. Take the bullet vibrator and cup it in your hand while it vibrates on a low speed, and then gently cup your husband’s testicles with it while giving him a handjob or blowjob. This technique will blow his mind!
Perineum Stimulation: Gently press the tip of the vibrator against the skin between his testicles and anus while giving him a handjob or fellatio. This is a very sensitive area and will most likely send your husband over the moon.
External Prostate Massage: Use a bullet with a strong, low-frequency vibration to stimulate your husband’s prostate by firmly pressing the tip of the vibrator on the skin between his balls and anus while on the highest vibration speed. Its powerful, rumbling vibrations will penetrate deep into his body and stimulate his prostate.
Vooom’s low-frequency vibrations are ideal for testicle or perineum stimulation.
Intercourse
For Her
Clitoral Stimulation: Most women can’t orgasm from intercourse alone. They need some sort of clitoral stimulation to have an orgasm. Take a bullet vibrator, and press it against your clitoris while making love to your husband. This is a great way to have simultaneous orgasms with him.
Tango’s powerful vibrations and longer than average size makes it ideal for stimulating your clitoris while having sex.
Here are a few sex positions that are great for using a bullet vibrator to stimulate your clitoris while having sex.
The Super 8 Sex Position allows the wife to stimulate her clitoris with a bullet vibrator while making love to her husband.
The Jiggle & Jam Sex Position allows the husband to stimulate his wife’s clitoris with a bullet vibrator while having sex.
The Clip Sex Position allows the wife to control the thrusting while her husband stimulates her clitoris.
The Close-up Sex Position allows the husband to reach over his wife and stimulate her clitoris with a bullet vibrator while in an intimate, spooning position.
These are some of our favorite positions, but CFSPs has several sex positions that are great for stimulating your clitoris with a vibrator while having sex. Try some of them out and see which ones work best. Half the fun is trying, right?
For Him
Testicular Stimulation: Use the cupping technique above and stimulate your husband’s testicles while having sex.
Perineum Stimulation: Use the tip of a bullet vibrator to stimulate your husband’s perineum while having sex.
Here are a few sex positions that allow you to stimulate your husband’s testicles or perineum during lovemaking.
I hope our explanation of what a bullet vibrator is and how one can be used to add intimacy in your marriage bed was inspiring and helpful for your marriage bed. If you have any questions, we’ll be happy to answer them for you.
Oh my wow! I had no idea you could do all these different things with this type of vibrator! I can’t wait to try this on my husband. Thank you so much for these tips! It’s also helpful whenever there is cartoon drawings because sometimes I don’t always understand the text description.