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How to Use a Penis Ring

Penis rings are a favorite for us and many of our customers. Vibrating penis rings add hands-free clitoral stimulation during sex, and non-vibrating rings make his erection harder, thicker, and more sensitive and help him last longer during sex.

What is a penis ring?

There are two general types of penis rings (also commonly called cock rings), vibrating penis rings and non-vibrating penis rings.

Vibrating penis rings are primarily worn during intercourse, so their vibrator stimulates the clitoris, testicles, or both. Non-vibrating penis rings are either worn around the base of the penis or the base of the penis and testicles to make his erection firmer, thicker, more sensitive, and delay ejaculation, or give him a full feeling down there.

What areas do penis rings stimulate?

Vibrating penis rings stimulate her clitoris during sex when the vibrator is positioned at the top of the penis or his testicles when the vibrator is placed on the underside of the penis. They also vibrate the shaft of his penis a little, which stimulates her vagina and helps him last a little longer.

Non-vibrating penis rings fit tighter and might give him a firmer girthier erection and make his penis more sensitive when worn around the base of the penis. This works best for men who have mild ED. They can also help him last longer by restricting the flow of semen.

Some larger non-vibrating rings go around the base of the penis and testicles to give him a unique full feeling. It’s hard to explain. You have to try it for yourself.

Penis Ring Safety

Penis rings are generally safe, but there are some things you need to know and precautions you should take when using them.

  1. Don’t wear it for more than 30 minutes at a time.
  2. Discontinue use if you feel discomfort or pain.
  3. Discontinue use if your penis or testicles feel cold, numb, or become pale or blue color.
  4. Never put a penis ring around the base of the testicles only.

Healthline has some great penis ring safety tips, too.

Over the years, we’ve had a few rings pop during use. We figured out that overstretching the ring or a tiny nick on the ring from a fingernail causes it to pop. We always keep spares just in case.

It’s also a good idea to trim or shave your pubic hair so it doesn’t pull while wearing a ring, especially when removing it. We learned that the hard way!

If you need a good shaver, we have a few that will do the job. We’ve found that trimmed hair around half an inch works well.

How do I use a penis ring during sex?

The most common way couples use a vibrating penis ring to enhance lovemaking is the husband wears it during sex, so the vibrator stimulates his wife’s clitoris.

This works incredibly well for my spouse and me in the Cowgirl sex position. Pro tip: combine the Cowgirl position and the Cowgirl Lift technique for the ride of your life! We promise!

You can also turn the vibrator down so that it stimulates his testicles during sex instead of her clitoris. Some vibrating rings have two vibrators that stimulate her clitoris and his testicles at the same time.

Wear a tight non-vibrating penis ring around the base of your penis, so your wife can enjoy a slightly firmer girthy erection during sex while you last a little longer and your penis becomes more sensitive.

Wear a larger non-vibrating ring around the base of your penis and testicles to give you a unique full feeling.

What penis rings do you recommend?

Vibrating Penis Rings

Satisfyer Strong One is an excellent entry-level vibrating ring. It’s quiet, rechargeable, vibrates at a deep, rumbly frequency, and can be controlled remotely via the Satisfyer Connect iOS or Android app.

Satisfyer Endless Love is a very popular, versatile vibrating ring that can be used to stimulate all exterior erogenous zones during foreplay and intercourse.

Screaming O OWow 4B is an affordable and comfortable vibrating ring. Its motor vibrates at a low frequency at 5 speeds and 1 pulsing mode. This sexual aid also comes in a 4T version, which has a high-pitched, buzzy motor for subtle stimulation that tickles.

We-Vibe Pivot is a high-quality vibrating ring with a powerful motor that vibrates at 11 rumbly vibration modes. It’s rechargeable, waterproof, and can be controlled remotely via the We-Vibe Connect app.

Non-Vibrating Penis Rings

Screaming O Ring O Biggies is an extra thick ring that’s strong, stretchy, and comfortable.

Titanmen Tools Erection Enhancer Ring Set has rings of different sizes with tabs that make putting the ring on or taking it off easy.

Screaming O Ring O Ritz is a silicone penis ring that’s super strong and stretchy. Stretch it around the base of the penis during intercourse.

Screaming O Ring O Ritz XL is a large silicone penis ring made to go around the base of the penis and testicles.

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  1. Jennifer says

    September 10, 2018 at 10:54 am

    This is such helpful information! I plan to play with these ideas with my husband and I to see how we can improve the quality of our intimacy together! Many times I see these types of items available and have no clue what it’s for and what to do with them, especially when wanting to be safe with tender goods.

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  2. Robin says

    June 8, 2022 at 5:59 pm

    WOW.. I’m a newby. Thank you

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  3. Bluegrassbabe95 says

    May 13, 2023 at 2:06 pm

    Wouldn’t a vibrating ring cause quicker ejaculation?

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