Nipple play is a kinky way for couples to spice up intimacy and explore new sensations together. Your nipples are an erogenous zone that’s packed with nerve endings that can provide intense pleasure for men and especially women.
Incorporating nipple play toys with foreplay and sex is an excellent way to add an extra layer of stimulation and amplify your pleasure. Let’s explore why they feel so good, how they work, and how to use them effectively.
How Nipple Stimulation Enhances Intimacy, Arousal, and Orgasm
Stimulating nipples during foreplay and intercourse can dramatically boost arousal and lead to more satisfying orgasms. Nipple stimulation activates the same neural pathways in the brain as genital stimulation, so adding nipple play to foreplay activities or sex can amplify pleasure.
Nipple stimulation also releases oxytocin, known as the “cuddle hormone.” Oxytocin is associated with the feeling of bonding and trust and boosts your ability to orgasm.
Types of Nipple Play Toys
Nipple-play sex toys come in a few different styles, each of which is suited for various activities. Here’s a closer look at the popular nipple play toys we carry and how each kind works.
Nipple Suckers
Nipple suckers use a gentle to strong suction to stimulate the entire nipple. They are small silicone or PVC bulbs you squeeze and place over your areolas to create a vacuum seal. The suction draws blood into the nipples, making them more sensitive and erect. The result is a steady, gentle tug that’s highly pleasurable.
Nipple suckers are perfect for beginners or those who prefer milder stimulation. They work best during foreplay activities that don’t have a lot of sudden movement by the wearer, such as receiving cunnilingus or a sensual massage while lying on your back, because they tend to fall off easily.
Pro Tip: For optimal suction, apply saliva or a water-based lubricant to and around the nipples, including the areola, before sucking, creating a better airtight seal.
Nipple Clamps
Nipple clamps are a classic sex toy that pinch the nipples with adjustable pressure. They look like tiny clips (clothespin or tweezer style) with screws or sliders to control how tight they squeeze. You can set them to a light pressure to a firm pinch. We suggest setting them to squeeze just tight enough to stay put without causing pain.
Squeezing the nipples restricts blood flow slightly, making them more sensitive and creating a rush of sensation. Most nipple clamps are paired with a chain that adds visual excitement, weight, and extra stimulation as the chain moves and rubs the breasts.
Nipple clamps for couples are an excellent addition for givers during foreplay, such as a blowjob or handjob. The wife can wear them during woman-on-top sex for extra kinky visual and physical pleasure.
Pro Tip: Wear a pair of nipple pinchers while riding your husband, and release them as you begin to orgasm. This technique sends a rush through your body and makes your orgasm more intense.
Nipple Pinchers
Nipple pinchers (sometimes referred to as magnetic nipple clamps or non-piercing nipple rings) provide an alternative method for gently squeezing your nipples. These sex toys use magnets or springy clips to press from both sides of your nipples, encircling them with firm but steady pressure. These nipple clamps do not have an adjustable squeeze and often double as nipple jewelry.
They generally provide less stimulation than nipple clamps but more than nipple suckers and pair well with most foreplay and intercourse adventures.
Nipple Vibrators
Nipple vibrators stick to, suction to, or clip on the nipples and stimulate them with vibration instead of suction or pinching alone. The vibration stimulates the nipples, increasing blood flow and thereby enhancing their sensitivity.
Limit vibrating nipple suckers to foreplay activities with minimal movements, such as cunnilingus, but the stick-on and clip-on versions can be used with most marriage bed activities.
Pro Tip: Clip-on nipple clamps pair great while giving your husband a BJ or handjob or while riding him in the Cowgirl sex position.
Nipple Play Tips for Beginners to Pros
Adding nipple play to foreplay and intercourse can add a kinky, intensely pleasurable layer both of you will love. Here are a few ways couples can add nipple play to their sexual repertoire.
Foreplay
Warm-Up With a Tease: Use nipple suckers at the beginning of foreplay to heighten their sensitivity before touching or kissing the breasts.
Blindfold + Nipple Play Combo: Removing a sense intensifies the other senses. Blindfold your spouse and then apply the nipple toys as an extra kinky and exhilarating way of using them.
Oral Stimulation Booster: Use a pair of nipple toys or a bullet vibrator to stimulate your nipples while receiving oral sex. The extra layer of stimulation doubles your pleasure.
Pinch & Kiss Alternation: Alternate between pinching nipples with fingers or toys and soft kisses for contrast play.
Erotic Massage Add-On: Use a pair of nipple toys to add a kinky, pleasurable layer to a sensual massage with an extra happy ending.
Intercourse
Rider’s Delight: Wear a pair of nipple clamps with a chair during wife-on-top sex and enjoy added stimulation from the gentle pinching and tugging and the chain moving over your breasts. Your husband will love the view, too!
Doggy Style Surprise: Wear a pair of chained nipple clamps while taking your husband from behind, and enjoy the gentle tug of the pinchers on your nipples as the chair sways back and forth.
Dual-Toy Action: Pair a clitoral vibrator with a nipple toy during sex in the Dragonfly or Standing Missionary positions for layers of incredible stimulation.
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