It’s so frustrating for both of you when you’re giving your wife cunnilingus, and she plateaus at the point just before orgasm and just can’t get over the cliff into orgasmic bliss.
We developed a list of techniques that we use and customers have shared with us that help your wife orgasm more effortlessly and reliably during cunnilingus. Give them a try during foreplay next time you and your spouse make love.
Make Sure She’s Comfortable and Relaxed
The chances of your wife reaching orgasm are better if she’s comfortable and relaxed and her mind is as clear as can be. Ensure the temperature is comfortable for her, the bedroom door is locked, and maybe turn on a fan or sound machine to mask sound from others in a nearby room. We don’t recommend turning on the TV because it could be distracting, but music would probably work.
If your wife always has a long to-do list running in her head, help her check off as many boxes as possible during the day so that she can relax and enjoy time with you.
No Pressure
Before diving between her legs, assure her there’s no pressure to have an orgasm. If it happens, great! If it doesn’t, hopefully, she enjoyed herself as much as you did, and you’ll try again next time.
Lift and Tilt Her Pelvis
A simple technique to make your job as the cunnilingus giver easier is to place a firm folded pillow or, better yet, a wedge sex pillow under her butt. Lifting her pelvis makes her vulva and clitoris more accessible and comfortable for you. Having her vulva exposed in front of you like that is a huge turn-on for some women, too.
Add G-spot Stimulation
Have you ever been giving your wife cunnilingus, and she’s right at the edge of orgasm, but she just can’t get over the hump into orgasmic ecstasy? That’s so frustrating! We’ve all been there. Add G-spot stimulation to help push her over the edge into ecstasy with these techniques.
Come-Hither Fingers: Insert two fingers into her vagina with your palm up and make a come-hither motion with your fingers to stimulate her G-spot.
Reverse Come-Hither Fingers: If the come-hither fingers technique isn’t comfortable for you, try inserting two fingers into her vagina with your palm down. Bend your fingers down a little and move them in and out of her vagina so your knuckles stimulate her G-spot.
Use a Dildo or Vibrator: If G-spot stimulation from your fingers isn’t enough, a dildo might, but a G-spot vibrator will probably be what it takes to get the job done. Slowly insert the vibrator into her vagina and then turn it on, beginning with a low setting-increasing the vibration intensity slowly while giving her cunnilingus until she erupts. The pressure and vibration against her G-spot should give her the push she needs to orgasm during cunnilingus.
In Conclusion
Hopefully, these tips will help you be more effective at giving your wife an orgasm during cunnilingus. Ensure she’s comfortable, relaxed in body and mind, and not under pressure to force anything to happen. Lifting her pelvis makes your job easier, and G-spot stimulation from your fingers, dildo, or vibrator usually gives her the push she needs to orgasm during cunnilingus. Good luck!
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