So, you got a new sex toy. Nice! We’ve got some valuable tips for the beginner to the seasoned sex toy user that ensures you get the most out of your new marital aid.
Become One With the Vibrator
In my opinion, you shouldn’t have to think much during sex. Fumbling with a vibrator and trying to figure out how to work it while you’re amid lovemaking is a total turnoff for both of you.
Spend as much time as you need getting to know your new toy before taking it out for its maiden voyage. Read the directions. Good quality vibrators often have features such as a travel lock and functions like turbo or silent mode that aren’t intuitive right out of the box.
Play with the controls and get to know them well. Make sure you know how to cycle through different vibration patterns and speeds easily. I’d go as far as cycling through the vibration modes with your eyes closed to make sure you know where every button is and what each button does.
It’s also a great idea to practice turning off the vibrator as quickly as possible. This skill gives you peace of mind if little ones barge in or come knocking at the door when you and your spouse are playing.
Share It With Your Spouse
It’s a good idea to let your partner handle the new toy before its first use and show them how it works. If they will be the person operating it, we suggest that they get to know how to use it like the back of their hand, too. This ensures the best possible experience for both of you.
Give It a Few Spins Before Judging
Using a marital aid for the first time, whether you’re new to sex toys or not, is kind of like riding a bike after just learning how. It may be a little clumsy and awkward. Your body needs to experience the vibrator a few times before it gets used to its stimulation and learns to enjoy it. We recommend using the toy at least three good times before deciding if it stays in the top drawer or gets saved in the closet.
Tip: Find the type of toy you’re using in the How-to section of Pillow Talk and learn everything about it. The information and techniques will help you get the most out of your sex toy.
Spread the Knowledge and Help Others
Once you’ve taken your new toy around the block several times, please write a review at MarriedDance and tell others about it. Your product review will help others decide if that item is right for them. Imagine if everyone wrote reviews about the products they use.
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