{"id":975,"date":"2024-01-23T14:13:31","date_gmt":"2024-01-23T19:13:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/?p=975"},"modified":"2024-02-27T16:21:23","modified_gmt":"2024-02-27T21:21:23","slug":"how-to-pick-the-right-size-sex-toy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/how-to-pick-the-right-size-sex-toy\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Pick the Right Size Sex Toy"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/p>\n

When it comes to sex toys<\/a>, size does matter. Picking the right-sized dildo<\/a> or vibrator<\/a> from an online sex toy store can be tricky since you can’t hold it in your hands. We include the total length, insertable length, and girth at the bottom of the detailed description of many marital aids<\/a> in this store to help you make a great purchase. We’re working towards adding these measurements to all applicable products soon.<\/p>\n

This guide gives insight and tips on choosing the right-sized toy so you can make an informed purchase both of you are happy with.<\/p>\n\n

What is the average penis size for a man?<\/h2>\n

Before we get started, I think it’s important to discuss penis size so that you can get a general idea of the size range of marital aids you’re willing to use.<\/p>\n

According to a 2014 review<\/a> published in the National Library of Medicine of over 15,000 men, the average erect penis length is 5.16 inches<\/a>, and the average erect penis girth (circumference) is 4.59 inches or 1.46 inches<\/a> wide (diameter).<\/p>\n

The best way to ensure you buy a sex toy that fits your body is to measure your husband’s penis so you have a foundation to go off. Once you know your husband’s erect penis length and girth, it’s easier to judge if a sex toy’s size will work for you.<\/p>\n

How to measure your husband’s penis?<\/h2>\n

Your husband may be apprehensive about measuring his penis, especially if he thinks he’s less endowed. Porn often distorts what an average man’s penis size really is. Show him the penis size study we referred to and ensure him that his size is perfect for you and that you’re just trying to find the perfect-sized vibrator or dildo so you and he can enjoy foreplay and sex more.<\/p>\n

Make measuring him fun for both of you and make it a part of foreplay one night. Please give him a heads-up before whipping out a measuring tape, though.<\/p>\n

An excellent time to bring this topic up is before hopping in bed. Say something like, “Hey babe, I was thinking about getting a new toy for the bedroom, and I need to ensure I get one that’s the right size. Would you mind if I measured your penis tonight? I’ll make it worth your while!<\/em>”<\/p>\n

Penis Length:<\/strong> Use a measuring tape or ruler and measure from the base of your husband’s erect penis to the tip. If his penis has a curve, a measuring tape will work the best.<\/p>\n

Penis Girth:<\/strong> Use a measuring tape and measure around the thickest point of your husband’s erect penis for the most accurate circumference or width. If you don’t have a measuring tape, wrap a string around his penis, mark the length, and measure it with a ruler to find the circumference.<\/p>\n

We categorize products’ girth using width, so you must convert circumference to diameter<\/a> to get your husband’s penis width to compare it to our products. We categorize them this way because that’s how most companies list their product’s girth.<\/p>\n

What size sex toys do you recommend?<\/h2>\n

We recommend using sex toys that are around the same width of your husband’s penis. The width matters more than the length.<\/p>\n

If you choose a marital aid that’s too girthy, it might feel uncomfortable, and if you pick one that’s too slim, you might not get the best experience possible. Too much girth is more of a problem than too little girth. Also, a toy that’s much larger than your husband might not sit well with him.<\/p>\n

We hope this information helps you find a sex toy that you and your spouse are happy with and helps bring many great intimate experiences together.<\/p>\n

If you need help choosing a toy, contact us<\/a>, and we’ll do out best to help you.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

This guide gives insight and tips on choosing the right-sized toy so you can make an informed purchase both of you are happy with.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":978,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[11],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-975","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-general-tips","8":"entry"},"yoast_head":"\nHow to Pick the Right Size Sex Toy - Christian Sex Toy Store<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"This guide gives insight and tips on choosing the right-sized toy so you can make an informed purchase both of you are happy with.\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/how-to-pick-the-right-size-sex-toy\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"How to Pick the Right Size Sex Toy - Christian Sex Toy Store\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"This guide gives insight and tips on choosing the right-sized toy so you can make an informed purchase both of you are happy with.\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/how-to-pick-the-right-size-sex-toy\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"Married Dance Pillow Talk\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2024-01-23T19:13:31+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:modified_time\" content=\"2024-02-27T21:21:23+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:image\" content=\"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/How-to-Pick-the-Right-Size-Sex-Toy.jpg\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:width\" content=\"800\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:height\" content=\"450\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:type\" content=\"image\/jpeg\" \/>\n<meta name=\"author\" content=\"MarriedDance\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:title\" content=\"How to Pick the Right Size Sex Toy - Christian Sex Toy Store\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Written by\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"MarriedDance\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Est. reading time\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"3 minutes\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\/\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"Article\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/how-to-pick-the-right-size-sex-toy\/#article\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/how-to-pick-the-right-size-sex-toy\/\"},\"author\":{\"name\":\"MarriedDance\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/#\/schema\/person\/b9968bd53341bceea8d3ce1a4da23870\"},\"headline\":\"How to Pick the Right Size Sex Toy\",\"datePublished\":\"2024-01-23T19:13:31+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2024-02-27T21:21:23+00:00\",\"mainEntityOfPage\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/how-to-pick-the-right-size-sex-toy\/\"},\"wordCount\":669,\"commentCount\":0,\"publisher\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/#organization\"},\"image\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/how-to-pick-the-right-size-sex-toy\/#primaryimage\"},\"thumbnailUrl\":\"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/How-to-Pick-the-Right-Size-Sex-Toy.jpg\",\"articleSection\":[\"General Tips\"],\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"CommentAction\",\"name\":\"Comment\",\"target\":[\"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/how-to-pick-the-right-size-sex-toy\/#respond\"]}]},{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/how-to-pick-the-right-size-sex-toy\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/how-to-pick-the-right-size-sex-toy\/\",\"name\":\"How to Pick the Right Size Sex Toy - Christian Sex Toy Store\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/#website\"},\"primaryImageOfPage\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/how-to-pick-the-right-size-sex-toy\/#primaryimage\"},\"image\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/how-to-pick-the-right-size-sex-toy\/#primaryimage\"},\"thumbnailUrl\":\"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/How-to-Pick-the-Right-Size-Sex-Toy.jpg\",\"datePublished\":\"2024-01-23T19:13:31+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2024-02-27T21:21:23+00:00\",\"description\":\"This guide gives insight and tips on choosing the right-sized toy so you can make an informed purchase both of you are happy with.\",\"breadcrumb\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/how-to-pick-the-right-size-sex-toy\/#breadcrumb\"},\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"ReadAction\",\"target\":[\"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/how-to-pick-the-right-size-sex-toy\/\"]}]},{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/how-to-pick-the-right-size-sex-toy\/#primaryimage\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/How-to-Pick-the-Right-Size-Sex-Toy.jpg\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/How-to-Pick-the-Right-Size-Sex-Toy.jpg\",\"width\":800,\"height\":450},{\"@type\":\"BreadcrumbList\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/how-to-pick-the-right-size-sex-toy\/#breadcrumb\",\"itemListElement\":[{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":1,\"name\":\"Home\",\"item\":\"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/\"},{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":2,\"name\":\"How to Pick the Right Size Sex Toy\"}]},{\"@type\":\"WebSite\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/#website\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/\",\"name\":\"Married Dance Pillow Talk\",\"description\":\"Christian sex toy store for married couples\",\"publisher\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/#organization\"},\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"SearchAction\",\"target\":{\"@type\":\"EntryPoint\",\"urlTemplate\":\"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/?s={search_term_string}\"},\"query-input\":{\"@type\":\"PropertyValueSpecification\",\"valueRequired\":true,\"valueName\":\"search_term_string\"}}],\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\"},{\"@type\":\"Organization\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/#organization\",\"name\":\"Married Dance\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/\",\"logo\":{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/#\/schema\/logo\/image\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/MD-Logo.png\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/MD-Logo.png\",\"width\":600,\"height\":140,\"caption\":\"Married Dance\"},\"image\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/#\/schema\/logo\/image\/\"}},{\"@type\":\"Person\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/#\/schema\/person\/b9968bd53341bceea8d3ce1a4da23870\",\"name\":\"MarriedDance\"}]}<\/script>\n<!-- \/ Yoast SEO plugin. -->","yoast_head_json":{"title":"How to Pick the Right Size Sex Toy - Christian Sex Toy Store","description":"This guide gives insight and tips on choosing the right-sized toy so you can make an informed purchase both of you are happy with.","robots":{"index":"index","follow":"follow","max-snippet":"max-snippet:-1","max-image-preview":"max-image-preview:large","max-video-preview":"max-video-preview:-1"},"canonical":"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/how-to-pick-the-right-size-sex-toy\/","og_locale":"en_US","og_type":"article","og_title":"How to Pick the Right Size Sex Toy - Christian Sex Toy Store","og_description":"This guide gives insight and tips on choosing the right-sized toy so you can make an informed purchase both of you are happy with.","og_url":"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/how-to-pick-the-right-size-sex-toy\/","og_site_name":"Married Dance Pillow Talk","article_published_time":"2024-01-23T19:13:31+00:00","article_modified_time":"2024-02-27T21:21:23+00:00","og_image":[{"width":800,"height":450,"url":"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/How-to-Pick-the-Right-Size-Sex-Toy.jpg","type":"image\/jpeg"}],"author":"MarriedDance","twitter_card":"summary_large_image","twitter_title":"How to Pick the Right Size Sex Toy - Christian Sex Toy Store","twitter_misc":{"Written by":"MarriedDance","Est. reading time":"3 minutes"},"schema":{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org","@graph":[{"@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/how-to-pick-the-right-size-sex-toy\/#article","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/how-to-pick-the-right-size-sex-toy\/"},"author":{"name":"MarriedDance","@id":"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/#\/schema\/person\/b9968bd53341bceea8d3ce1a4da23870"},"headline":"How to Pick the Right Size Sex Toy","datePublished":"2024-01-23T19:13:31+00:00","dateModified":"2024-02-27T21:21:23+00:00","mainEntityOfPage":{"@id":"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/how-to-pick-the-right-size-sex-toy\/"},"wordCount":669,"commentCount":0,"publisher":{"@id":"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/#organization"},"image":{"@id":"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/how-to-pick-the-right-size-sex-toy\/#primaryimage"},"thumbnailUrl":"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/How-to-Pick-the-Right-Size-Sex-Toy.jpg","articleSection":["General Tips"],"inLanguage":"en-US","potentialAction":[{"@type":"CommentAction","name":"Comment","target":["https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/how-to-pick-the-right-size-sex-toy\/#respond"]}]},{"@type":"WebPage","@id":"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/how-to-pick-the-right-size-sex-toy\/","url":"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/how-to-pick-the-right-size-sex-toy\/","name":"How to Pick the Right Size Sex Toy - Christian Sex Toy Store","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/#website"},"primaryImageOfPage":{"@id":"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/how-to-pick-the-right-size-sex-toy\/#primaryimage"},"image":{"@id":"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/how-to-pick-the-right-size-sex-toy\/#primaryimage"},"thumbnailUrl":"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/How-to-Pick-the-Right-Size-Sex-Toy.jpg","datePublished":"2024-01-23T19:13:31+00:00","dateModified":"2024-02-27T21:21:23+00:00","description":"This guide gives insight and tips on choosing the right-sized toy so you can make an informed purchase both of you are happy with.","breadcrumb":{"@id":"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/how-to-pick-the-right-size-sex-toy\/#breadcrumb"},"inLanguage":"en-US","potentialAction":[{"@type":"ReadAction","target":["https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/how-to-pick-the-right-size-sex-toy\/"]}]},{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"en-US","@id":"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/how-to-pick-the-right-size-sex-toy\/#primaryimage","url":"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/How-to-Pick-the-Right-Size-Sex-Toy.jpg","contentUrl":"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/How-to-Pick-the-Right-Size-Sex-Toy.jpg","width":800,"height":450},{"@type":"BreadcrumbList","@id":"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/how-to-pick-the-right-size-sex-toy\/#breadcrumb","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Home","item":"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/"},{"@type":"ListItem","position":2,"name":"How to Pick the Right Size Sex Toy"}]},{"@type":"WebSite","@id":"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/#website","url":"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/","name":"Married Dance Pillow Talk","description":"Christian sex toy store for married couples","publisher":{"@id":"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/#organization"},"potentialAction":[{"@type":"SearchAction","target":{"@type":"EntryPoint","urlTemplate":"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/?s={search_term_string}"},"query-input":{"@type":"PropertyValueSpecification","valueRequired":true,"valueName":"search_term_string"}}],"inLanguage":"en-US"},{"@type":"Organization","@id":"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/#organization","name":"Married Dance","url":"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"en-US","@id":"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/#\/schema\/logo\/image\/","url":"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/MD-Logo.png","contentUrl":"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/MD-Logo.png","width":600,"height":140,"caption":"Married Dance"},"image":{"@id":"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/#\/schema\/logo\/image\/"}},{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/#\/schema\/person\/b9968bd53341bceea8d3ce1a4da23870","name":"MarriedDance"}]}},"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/How-to-Pick-the-Right-Size-Sex-Toy.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/975","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=975"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/975\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":985,"href":"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/975\/revisions\/985"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/978"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=975"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=975"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marrieddance.com\/pillow-talk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=975"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}