Choosing a vibrator can be a daunting task, especially if you have little or no experience using one. We’re often asked, “This is our first time buying a vibrator. Which one should we start with?” This isn’t an easy question to answer because every couple’s likes and dislikes in their marriage bed are different.
To help answer this question, we’ve put together a list of useful tips and information about each type of vibrator we sell to help you make a better, more informed buying decision based on your likes and dislikes in your marriage bed.
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Keep These Important Tips in Mind
Highly Recommended: All of our products are high-quality and backed by a 30-day warranty, but some of them stand out amongst the rest. Products labeled “Highly Recommended” are top-quality products that will give you the best possible experience. Another great place to narrow down your search to only the best marital aids is our Best Selling Sex Toys section.
You Get What You Pay For: Higher quality vibrators use high-quality motors and materials which cost more. They can also vibrate in patterns that rumble, escalate, and pulse until your heart’s content. Cheap vibrators get the job done too, but if you want quality that lasts, invest in a better vibrator. It’s WELL worth it!
Vibrator Care Tips: If you want your vibrator to last, ALWAYS clean it before and after use and let it air dry overnight. If your vibrator includes removable batteries, take them out while storing your vibrator to prevent battery power and acid leaks. Rechargeable vibrators need to be charged at least every two or three weeks, regardless if it’s used or not. If the vibrator is left in a drawer for a few months without being charged, it will most likely be dead when you want to use it, and if the voltage drops too low, it won’t take a charge.
Body Massagers
The powerful vibration from the head of body massagers works wonders on sore muscles, but that’s not all body massagers are useful for. They’re also an excellent choice for clitoral stimulation. The powerful vibration of a body massager applied to her vulva resonates deep into the internal parts of her clitoris and is almost guaranteed to give her an intense orgasm.
USAGE TIPS:
- Set the mood: Nothing sets the mood like a long, relaxing, sensual massage. A body massager’s deep-penetrating vibrations take some of the work out of giving an excellent sensual massage.
- External stimulation: Turn a relaxing massage into an erotic sensual one by rubbing this body massager on your spouse’s erotic zones.
- Internal stimulation: Turn a body massager into an internal vibrator by adding one of its attachments. Sold separately.
- During intercourse: Use a body massager during intercourse to stimulate the clitoris or other erotic zones to add more stimulation. Our Liberator Axis is specifically designed to hold the body massager in just the right spot for AMAZING clitoral stimulation during rear-entry intercourse positions. Visit Christian Friendly Sex Positions and browse hundreds of sex position illustrations, many of which suggest using vibrators to add stimulation to them for inspiration.
- Orgasm together: Do you have trouble achieving simultaneous orgasms? Use a body massager to stimulate her to the brink of orgasm and then switch to intercourse to orgasm together.
- Sore muscles: Sex isn’t as fun if you don’t feel good. Use this body massager’s deep-penetrating vibrations to help relieve sore muscles too.
Get more detailed tips on using a body massager vibrator to enhance lovemaking in your marriage bed.
Bullet Vibrators
The compact design and POWERFUL vibrations of bullet vibrators make them a popular choice for our customers. Bullet vibrators are great for all kinds of external stimulation both spouses will enjoy, from sensual massages to clitoral and testicle stimulation.
USAGE TIPS:
- Clitoral stimulation: The compact and powerful vibration from bullet vibrators are great for stimulating her clitoris before, during, or after intercourse.
- Useful for both spouses: Bullet vibrators are not just for her. They can also be used to stimulate his erotic zones too.
- During intercourse: Use a bullet vibrator during intercourse to stimulate the clitoris or other erotic zones to add more stimulation. Visit Christian Friendly Sex Positions and browse hundreds of sex position illustrations, many of which suggest using vibrators to add stimulation to them for inspiration.
- Fellatio: Place a bullet vibrator in your hand and then cup his testicles with it while giving him fellatio.
- Cunnilingus, fellatio, handjobs, manual stimulation, ohh my! Visit Marriage Bed Tips and browse hundreds of foreplay and intercourse techniques, many of which suggest using vibrators to add stimulation for inspiration.
Get more detailed tips & techniques on using a bullet vibrator to enhance lovemaking in your marriage bed.
Clitoris Cuddlers
Clitoris Cuddlers’ SOLE purpose is to stimulate her clitoris. Some are long with a “cup” on the end that engulfs her clitoris with amazing vibrations, and others fit perfectly in the palm of your hand with just the right curve to reach your clitoris during foreplay or intercourse.
USAGE TIPS:
- Get in the mood: Use a clitoris cuddler to stimulate her clitoris and quickly get her aroused.
- During intercourse: Use a clitoris cuddler during intercourse to stimulate the clitoris and add more stimulation. Clitoris cuddlers work great in the missionary sex position. Visit Christian Friendly Sex Positions and browse hundreds of sex position illustrations, many of which suggest using vibrators to add stimulation to them for inspiration.
- Orgasm together: Do you have trouble achieving simultaneous orgasms? Use a clitoris cuddler to stimulate her to the brink of orgasm, and then switch to intercourse to orgasm together as a couple.
- Cunnilingus, fellatio, handjobs, manual stimulation, ohh my! Visit Marriage Bed Tips and browse hundreds of foreplay and intercourse techniques, many of which give suggestions on using vibrators to add stimulation for inspiration.
Get more detailed tips on using a clitoris cuddler vibrator to enhance lovemaking in your marriage bed.
Dual Action Vibrators
Dual-Action Vibrators (also known as rabbit vibrators) are specifically designed for simultaneous g-spot AND clitoral stimulation, delivering you to the king of all pleasure – blended orgasms.
USAGE TIPS:
- Set the mood: Once your wife is relaxed, rub this vibrator in or around her erotic zones to help get her aroused and ready for sex.
- Foreplay: Use a rabbit vibrator to stimulate her g-spot and clitoris during foreplay and give her a few orgasms before intercourse.
- Orgasm together: Do you have trouble achieving simultaneous orgasms? Use a dual-action vibrator to stimulate her to the brink of orgasm and then switch to intercourse and orgasm together as a couple.
Finger Vibrators
Finger Vibrators are meant to be worn on the tip of your finger and provide external stimulation.
USAGE TIPS:
- Set the mood: Once your spouse is relaxed, rub a finger vibrator around his/her erotic zones to help get him/her aroused and ready for sex.
- Clitoral stimulation: The compact and powerful vibration from finger vibrators are great for stimulating her clitoris before, during, or after intercourse.
- Useful for both spouses: This finger vibrator is not just for her. It can also be used to stimulate his erotic zones too.
- During intercourse: Use a finger vibrator during intercourse to stimulate her clitoris or other erotic zones and add more stimulation. Finger vibrators work great in the missionary sex position. Visit Christian Friendly Sex Positions and browse hundreds of sex position illustrations, many of which have suggestions on how to use vibrators to add stimulation to them, for inspiration.
- Orgasm together: Do you have trouble achieving simultaneous orgasms? Use a finger vibrator to stimulate her to the brink of orgasm, and then switch to intercourse to orgasm together as a couple.
- Cunnilingus, fellatio, handjobs, manual stimulation, ohh my! Visit Marriage Bed Tips and browse hundreds of foreplay and intercourse techniques, many of which give suggestions on using vibrators to add stimulation for inspiration.
G-Spot Vibrators
G-Spot Vibrator’s curved shape and wide tip are perfectly designed to reach and stimulate her g-spot during foreplay.
USAGE TIPS:
- Set the mood: Once your spouse is relaxed, rub this vibrator around his/her erotic zones to help get him/her aroused and ready for sex.
- Useful for both spouses: This vibrator is not just for her. It can also be used to stimulate his external erotic zones too.
- Internal stimulation: Once she’s very aroused, use a g-spot vibrator to stimulate her g-spot.
- Orgasm together: Do you have trouble achieving simultaneous orgasms? Use a g-spot vibrator to stimulate her to the brink of orgasm and then switch to intercourse to orgasm together as a couple.
- Cunnilingus, fellatio, handjobs, manual stimulation, ohh my! Visit Marriage Bed Tips and browse hundreds of foreplay and intercourse techniques, many of which suggest on using vibrators to add stimulation for inspiration.
- Clitoral Stimulation During Sex: The curved shape and vibrating tip of these marital aids are perfect for clitoral stimulation during sex.
Get more detailed tips on using a g-spot vibrator to enhance lovemaking in your marriage bed.
Hands-Free Vibrators
Wear a hands-free vibrator in your panties and enjoy hands-free stimulation.
USAGE TIPS:
- Tease her silly: Have your wife wear these vibrating panties around the house and randomly turn them on using the remote.
- Hot date night: Have your wife wear vibrating panties for date night while you control the remote.
- Oral sex: Why should he have all the fun when you’re giving fellatio? Wear a hands-free vibrator while giving your husband a blowjob so both of you can enjoy it.
- Cunnilingus, fellatio, handjobs, manual stimulation, ohh my! Visit Marriage Bed Tips and browse hundreds of foreplay and intercourse techniques, many of which give suggestions on using vibrators to add stimulation for inspiration.
Modern Vibrators
These vibrators come in all shapes, sizes, and textures.
USAGE TIPS:
- Set the mood: Once your spouse is relaxed, rub a vibrator in or around his/her erotic zones to help get him/her aroused and ready for sex.
- During intercourse: Use a vibrator during intercourse to stimulate the clitoris or other erotic zones and add more stimulation. Visit Christian Friendly Sex Positions and browse hundreds of sex position illustrations, many of which suggest using vibrators to add stimulation to them for inspiration.
- Orgasm together: Do you have trouble achieving simultaneous orgasms? Use a vibrator to stimulate her to the brink of orgasm and then switch to intercourse to orgasm together as a couple.
- Cunnilingus, fellatio, handjobs, manual stimulation, ohh my! Visit Marriage Bed Tips and browse hundreds of foreplay and intercourse techniques, many of which give suggestions on using vibrators to add stimulation for inspiration.
Pocket Rockets
Designed for powerful, pinpoint, external stimulation.
USAGE TIPS:
- Set the mood: Once your spouse is relaxed, rub a pocket rocket vibrator around his/her erotic zones to help get him/her aroused and ready for sex.
- Orgasm together: Do you have trouble achieving simultaneous orgasms? Use a pocket rocket vibrator to stimulate her to the brink of orgasm and then switch to intercourse to orgasm together as a couple.
- Cunnilingus, fellatio, handjobs, manual stimulation, ohh my! Visit Marriage Bed Tips and browse hundreds of foreplay and intercourse techniques, many of which give suggestions on using vibrators to add stimulation for inspiration.
Traditional Vibrator
The original straight, smooth shape of early vibrators. These are great for someone looking for a simple non-phallic vibrator.
USAGE TIPS:
- Set the mood: Once your spouse is relaxed, rub a vibrator in or around his/her erotic zones to help get him/her aroused and ready for sex.
- During intercourse: Use a vibrator during intercourse to stimulate the clitoris or other erotic zones and add more stimulation. Visit Christian Friendly Sex Positions and browse hundreds of sex position illustrations, many of which suggest using vibrators to add stimulation to them for inspiration.
- Orgasm together: Do you have trouble achieving simultaneous orgasms? Use a vibrator to stimulate her to the brink of orgasm and then switch to intercourse to orgasm together as a couple.
- Cunnilingus, fellatio, handjobs, manual stimulation, ohh my! Visit Marriage Bed Tips and browse hundreds of foreplay and intercourse techniques, many of which give suggestions on using vibrators to add stimulation for inspiration.
Try our risk-free Vibrator Pilot Program. Our Vibrator Pilot kit includes everything you need to experiment with using a vibrator to add intimacy in your marriage bed (multi-speed vibrator, batteries, and a Vibrators 101 Guide to guide the way). Try it for 60 days, and if it’s not for you we’ll refund your credit card (including shipping) with absolutely no questions asked.
Vibrating Penis Rings
By far our most popular category of vibrators. Vibrating penis rings fit snugly around the base of his penis and deliver simultaneous, hands-free stimulation to his shaft and her clitoris during lovemaking. It’s a win-win for both of you. He doesn’t feel threatened by it, and you get AMAZING clitoral stimulation while making love.
USAGE TIPS:
- Get in the mood: Use the vibrating portion of the ring to stimulate her clitoris and quickly get her aroused before you strap it on.
- A real live vibrator!: Wear it during intercourse so your wife can get the best of both worlds; a vibrator and her husband’s penis. Visit Christian Friendly Sex Positions and browse hundreds of sex position illustrations, many of which suggest using vibrators to add stimulation to them for inspiration.
- Cunnilingus, fellatio, handjobs, manual stimulation, ohh my! Visit Marriage Bed Tips and browse hundreds of foreplay and intercourse techniques, many of which give suggestions on using vibrators to add stimulation for inspiration.
