Married Dance is a Christian sex toy store run by a husband-and-wife team since 2011 and has served almost 100,000 couples. Our sex shop offers a large, tasteful selection of marital aids that are displayed 100% nudity-free, described in a marriage-focused way, and shipped discreetly.
Our View On Using Sex Toys
Adult toys have a stigma associated with them among Christians because of almost all secular adult stores’ marketing, offensive packaging, and association with masturbation and usage that doesn’t align with Christian values, and that’s unfortunate because so many Christians are missing out because of this.
If you set all that aside, a vibrator, for example, is neither good nor bad. It’s simply an object that vibrates and, if used properly, can help a wife climax more easily and reliably with her husband, making foreplay or intercourse better for both spouses. What matters is the context of how it’s used.
Think about this: Most believers would not think twice about using personal lubricant during lovemaking if they need to. But what if that same lubricant is used to masturbate while thinking of someone else? Is the lubricant bad, or is the context of how it was used bad? What matters is why you’re using the lube.
Read our post, “Sex Toys and Christian Values: A Practical Guide for Couples,” for an in-depth explanation of our views about using intimacy aids without cheapening sex.
Christian-friendly Environment & Support
Christian-friendly Environment
We are a Christian-focused retailer that sells many of the same toys as secular stores do. What sets us apart is our “Christian-friendly” environment. “Christian-friendly” doesn’t mean the products are blessed or anything like that. It means we display all items without nudity or models, and their descriptions are marriage-centered and align with Christian values.
We also don’t carry products associated with the porn industry, replicas of someone’s body, or promote usage that doesn’t align with Christian values.
One-On-One Support
Are you new to adult products or need more information about using them? Check out our Pillow Talk section for in-depth guides on each type of toy we sell and topics we’re asked about often.
If you have questions about a specific item before you buy, need help solving a bedroom issue, or need help using a toy you purchased from us, we’re an email away.
Why Trust Us?
How Married Dance Started: A Little Backstory
Many years ago, when my spouse and I purchased our first sexual aid, the places where we could purchase them made us feel like we were doing something wrong, even though we weren’t. Along with the toys, the store had nudity on display, porn for sale, and promoted doing things that didn’t align with our values.
We looked around for safer places to shop, but couldn’t find much, so we decided to create the store we’d like to shop for sex toys at that aligned with our Christian values. That’s how Married Dance started.
Our Customers
Since we started Married Dance in 2011, almost 100,000 couples have trusted us to buy bedroom adventure gear. We’ve sold romance aids to people from North Pole, AK, to Miami, FL, from the newlyweds next door to the retired couple down the street, from the pastor and their spouse to the occasional churchgoer. Couples from all walks of life trust us with their bedroom toy purchases.
Sex and Relationship Experts
Several doctors, sex and relationship experts, pastors, counselors, podcasts, marriage bloggers, and best-selling authors trust us enough to tell others about our unique store. Here are a few of the more popular people who support what we do. This isn’t an exhaustive list, and they are in no particular order.
- Dr. Shannon Chavez: A nationally recognized sex expert.
- Dr. Jennifer Degler: Psychologist, life coach, author, speaker, wife, and mom. Dr. Jennifer Degler is passionate about helping people create healthy, successful relationships. Dr. Jenn is an affiliate and promotes Married Dance in her Dare of the Month club.
- Hot, Holy, & Humorous: J. Parker is a best-selling Christian sex and relationship author dedicated to helping couples embrace sex by God’s design. Check out her blog post: Should You Get a Sex Pillow?
- Uncovering Intimacy: Jay Dee and his wife Christina offer honest, research-backed help for the parts of marriage most people are too uncomfortable to talk about openly. Our store is cited throughout their website.
- Rachelle Colegrove: Rachelle is a licensed professional counselor MA, LPC, CST trained at Focus on the Family’s Focus Marriage Institute, and frequently mentions us at Focus on the Family and her Fun Marriage workshop events.
- The Marriage Bed: One of the oldest online blogs and message boards to discuss sex in Christian marriage. We’re cited throughout their posts and forum.
- Sex Chat for Christian Wives Podcast: A group of Christian wives that encourages other wives to enjoy God’s gift of sex. They’ve been longtime supporters and friends.
- Intimate Covenant: Matt & Jenn Schmidt help couples build a fuller relationship and an extraordinary sex life, and they share about us on their blog, podcast, and marriage retreats.
- Get Your Marriage On: Christian-friendly sex and intimacy coaching and app creator.
- Ultimate Intimacy App: #1 Marriage and Intimacy App.
- Kingdom Sexuality Podcast: Alana, Kyle, and Tiera are three friends who created a popular podcast for married couples who want a thriving, God-honoring sex life, and they often mention us in their episodes.
- Song of Songs Quiz: An innovative sex quiz Christian couples take to help them find common interests and improve their sex lives together. We are their store of choice for couples that show interest in intimacy products.
Many of our customers are referred to us by pastors of all denominations, marriage intimacy classes and conferences, Christian counselors, and sex therapists. We’re even cited as a reputable romance shop for Christian patients to shop for marital aids in a medical textbook!
Return Policy
Money-Back Guarantee and Warranty
All our products are guaranteed to arrive in working order. When you receive your package, promptly check the items to make sure they work properly. If you have received a defective item or have an issue with your order, please email [email protected] as soon as possible. We’ll work with you to resolve your problem.
30-Day Warranty
All items are guaranteed to be in working order and are warrantied for 30 days after receiving them. Many of our premium items include a manufacturer warranty for up to 10 years. If the product includes a warranty, contact the manufacturer about a replacement.
Shipping and Packaging Information
See our shipping and packaging information page here.
Email Privacy
We know many families share email accounts and/or don’t want unsolicited emails trying to sell them another vibrator. Under normal circumstances, you’ll receive only 3 emails from us when placing an order.
- First Email: Immediately after placing your order, you’ll receive a confirmation email confirming we received it. If you do not receive an email within 5 minutes, check your spam and junk folders or promotions tab (Gmail users) for an email from [email protected].
- Second Email: Within a few business days, you’ll receive a second email letting you know your order has shipped. It’ll contain the tracking number(s), so you will know when your package(s) will arrive. If you do not receive it within 4 business days, search for an email from [email protected].
- Third (final) Email: About 3 weeks after placing your order, you’ll receive a final email from [email protected] asking you to review the product(s).
Note: The first two emails include the store name and an itemized list of the products in your order. This is necessary for proof of purchase and is required by all manufacturers of products with a warranty when making a warranty claim.
After you’ve received the third email, you won’t hear from us again unless you join our newsletter.
Pastor and Group Discounts
We give pastor and group discounts for marriage intimacy classes and conferences. Contact us for more details.
Where did the name “Married Dance” originate?
Did you mean “Marriage Dance?” No, the phrase “married dance” was a fun term my spouse and I used when talking about having sex early in our marriage. So, sex was referred to as doing the “married dance.”
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