How do I use the You & Me – A Game of Love & Intimacy Sex Card Game?
The You & Me – A Game of Love & Intimacy Sex Game can be used as a great Christian intimacy sexual aid during foreplay by creating exciting encounters and giving you romantic inspiration with its 90 innovative ideas, sexy suggestions, and adventurous activities.
Rules of the Game
With 90 innovative ideas, sexy suggestions, and adventurous activities, this is a game where taking part is almost as good as winning! Make the time for “You & me” to enjoy a game of love and intimacy.
Starting the game
Firstly both players remove and keep the joker from their pack. Shuffle each pack separately and place it face down in front of you. Be sure to include your 4-star cards!
The first player to roll “Me” goes first. After that, take it in turns. To make the game more enjoyable, collect a few accessories, such as your favorite marital aids, together before you start. A scarf or tie, massage oil, and some lubricant are ideal. It is highly recommended!
Principles of the game
When she rolls the die:
- If the die lands on “You,” he takes the forfeit.
- If the die lands on “Me,” she takes the forfeit.
- If the die lands on “?,” she chooses who takes the forfeit.
When he rolls the die:
- If the die lands on “You,” she takes the forfeit.
- If the die lands on “Me,” he takes the forfeit.
- If the die lands on “?,” he chooses who takes the forfeit.
The spouse who takes the forfeit chooses the appropriate card for their sex. They perform the action and take the points. Each forfeit lasts for as long as it takes for the sand to run out in the timer.
Winning the game
The winner is the first player to accrue 30 points and celebrate by receiving a sexual favor of your choice from your spouse. You do that by completing the forfeit on the cards to your spouse’s satisfaction.
Every card has 1, 2, or 3 hearts on it – these signify the level of the forfeit.
- 1 heart = a soft forfeit = 1 point
- 2 hearts = a spicy forfeit = 2 points
- 3 hearts = a hardcore forfeit = 3 points
Every time a player completes a forfeit, you should write down the number of points they win. (It’s the player completing the forfeit who wins the points.)
The Joker: At the start of the game, you are given a Joker, which you can use to refuse a forfeit. But remember you can only use this once!
Star Cards: There are 4 special cards each: 3 cards that can win you 5, 10, or 15 extra points and a penalty card which can lose you 15 points. You can choose to pass on a special card or to take it. You decide, at your own risk!
Kelsey (verified owner) –
This game is a lot of fun. My husband and I went through our cards beforehand and threw out the ones we were not comfortable with, there weren’t too many. Now we’ve played several times and it is a fun way to heat things up and draw out a date.
Hammer308 (verified owner) –
Married Dance is a great Christian website that helps explore sex and play with your partner and be sexual between each other
JohnThunderr (verified owner) –
Great simple and fun game. My wife and I really enjoyed playing. It was a fun way to build intimacy and quality time.
James N –
We had fun but sometimes the game play can be awkward due to randomly drawing cards. For example, you might draw one that requires you to be fully naked and then the next card tells you to do a strip tease. Also some cards like sucking your partner’s toes require you to shower before you begin the game.
BAM (verified owner) –
This is a really great way for everyone to be comfortable trying new things. The best part is you just follow the cards. There is no embarrassment asking for what you think would be fun. It also helps you discover things you enjoy that you would never have thought to ask for. Everyone gets more comfortable and they happen more commonly without the game. Also if you are competitive you will enjoy that there is a clear winner in this game (yes everyone wins in the end anyway). The winner gets to pick any card for their spouse to do. It is all a great way for Christian couples to enjoy their sex lives even more.
BigCityGirl (verified owner) –
We had a great time with this and just recommended it to a newly married couple. As someone else mentioned, my husband and I went through the cards beforehand and took out a few things we weren’t fans of. Even though some things required you to have clothes and some didn’t, it wasn’t really a big deal for us. If we needed to have clothes, we just threw something back on real quick. We also discovered some new things we were fans of after trying them on the cards, which was a pleasant surprise after nine years of marriage. It was a little awkward at times because the sand timer is not the most accurate (sometimes it seemed to run faster, and there was one time it got stuck) so we are looking into getting a new one. Other than that, we have decided to play this again. Even though my husband got the most points, I didn’t feel like a loser.