Description
Most of us were never actually taught how our bodies work. We were told to wait, and then we waited, and then we found ourselves wondering why pleasure wasn’t coming as easily as we expected. This course changes that.
Sound Familiar?
You are not the only one who’s wondered, “What’s wrong with me?“
- You have never had an orgasm, or not in a very long time.
- You show up to intimacy wanting to connect, but your body doesn’t cooperate.
- It feels much harder than you expected.
- Everyone else seems to have figured this out, and you’re still trying.
- You don’t know how to bring this up with your husband without it getting awkward.
- You’ve wondered if something is just broken about you.
This course was made for you!
The Course
INTRO: Let’s Get Real About Orgasms – Who this course is for, how it works, and why it was built the way it was. Meet Alana, Tiera, and Kyle, and understand why doing this in order actually matters.
01: What No One Told You – The messages you absorbed growing up about sex, your body, and what to expect didn’t disappear when you got married. This is where you start unpacking them.
02: Understanding Orgasm: Anatomy & Experience – A clear, shame-free walk-through of how your body was designed for pleasure. Anatomy, different types of orgasm, common myths, and the orgasm gap explained.
03: Understanding Arousal & Desire – Most women experience desire differently than they were taught. Learn the Dual Control Model, how your cycle affects arousal, and how to begin getting to know your own body.
04: Techniques, Tips & Touch – A practical look at how your body responds to different kinds of stimulation. The phases of arousal, helpful tools, and how to stay present instead of in your head.
05: Bringing Your Husband In – How to share what you have been learning and begin exploring together. Communication, building blocks, and what it looks like to redefine intimacy as a team.
06: “Why Can’t I Orgasm?” – Mental distraction, shame, not enough foreplay, hormones, medication, physical barriers. A real walkthrough of what gets in the way and what to do about it.
07: Multiples & Inconsistency – What multiple orgasms actually are, and why inconsistency doesn’t mean you’ve gone backward. How to stay curious and connected instead of discouraged.
08: Connection & Keeping It Fun – How to carry what you have learned forward without turning intimacy into a project. Staying playful, growing together, and not losing the joy in all the learning.
BONUS: Q&A with Josh Spurlock – A roundtable conversation answering the questions that come up most when couples walk through this material, with a Christian sex therapist who helped shape the course.
Katie –
Such an incredible resource, super professional and helpful!!! Loved that there was a husband section too.