Body massagers, also called wand vibrators, produce ultra-powerful, deep, rumbly vibrations that almost guarantee a quick, intense orgasm when pressed against the clitoris. This guide takes a Christian perspective and goes in-depth about body massagers, how they enhance intimacy, and which are best.
What Is A Body Massager?
Most body massagers have a cylindrical handle with a vibrating ball at one end. The vibrating ball is connected to a powerful motor located in the handle. The Original Magic Wand is our best-seller and most powerful massager.
What Is A Body Massager Used For?
Body massagers were first designed to massage sore muscles, and they do a great job at that. We will focus on using them to enhance intimacy in your marriage bed, though.
A body massager is used for external clitoral stimulation during foreplay or intercourse. Its powerful stimulation almost guarantees an orgasm and is used by women who want to orgasm quickly or those who have a difficult time having an orgasm.
A MarriedDance customer describes the power of her Magic Wand, “It’s like it forces me to have an orgasm when I use it!”
In 2008, The Scientific World Journal published research finding over 93% of a group of 500 chronic anorgasmic women could reach orgasm using a Magic Wand! So, ladies, if you have a difficult time having an orgasm or you’ve never experienced an orgasm, a body massager is the marital aid for you!
How To Use A Body Massager
We’ve put together some Christian-friendly tips and techniques for using a body massager to add intimacy to your marriage bed or spice things up without cheapening sex.
Before We Start: The powerful stimulation might be too much for some women. If this is the case for you, try one of these techniques to dull the stimulation.
Don’t Start at the Clitoris: Guys, your wife’s clitoris is VERY sensitive. If you press the massager against her clit before she’s aroused, it’ll tickle or overload her senses and be painful.
- Start slow with other things such as kissing, touching, and cunnilingus.
- Start using the wand on a low setting on your wife’s inner thighs and around her vulva.
- On a low setting, slide the vibrator from the bottom of her vulva up to her clitoris and back down.
- Eventually, you’ll be able to rub the vibrator over her clitoris only and go up in speed if she asks.
Folded Towel Method: Take a hand towel or washcloth and place it over your vulva while stimulating your clitoris with the massager. If it’s still too powerful, fold the hand towel in half to dampen its vibrations more.
Desire Dial: The Original Magic Wand has three speeds: fast, faster, and nuclear. Use the Desire Dial variable speed controller to tame and control the Original Magic Wand’s vibrations better.
Clitoral Stimulation: The wife or her husband presses the massager’s ball on her clitoris and moves the ball up and down over it. This is a great technique to give her an orgasm or two before intercourse starts.
Clitoral Stimulation During Fellatio: Here’s a great way to enjoy orgasm after orgasm while giving your husband a blowjob during foreplay.
- Take a pillow and fold it in half.
- Place a body massager on the folded pillow.
- Kneel, and then straddle the pillow so the massager’s ball presses against your clitoris.
- Have your husband stand in front of you or sit on a chair, couch, or edge of the bed while giving him a blowjob and enjoy heavenly clitoral stimulation from the body massager between your legs.
We highly recommend using the Liberator Wanda Sex Pillow to mount your massager while giving your man a blowjob. Its firm shape and angled holder position the massager in the perfect spot so you can enjoy breathtaking orgasms while giving your husband fellatio without worrying about a shifting, squishy pillow.
G-Spot Stimulation: Use a g-spot attachment (sold separately) to stimulate your wife’s g-spot during foreplay.
Penis Stimulation: Use a stroker attachment (sold separately) with lots of water-based lube to stimulate your husband’s penis during foreplay. Apply a generous amount of water-based lube over the entrance of the sleeve attachment, and then lower it onto his penis and make up-and-down strokes.
When purchasing an attachment, ensure it’s compatible with the massager you have or are buying. Full-size Magic Wands have their attachments, full-size Le Wands have their attachments, and Petite Le Wands have their attachments.
Clitoral Stimulation During Missionary-Style Sex: Press the ball of the massager against your clitoris while having sex with your husband in the Super 8 sex position so you can enjoy orgasm-inducing stimulation during intercourse and come with your husband.
Here are a few missionary-style sex positions that work well with wand vibrators.
Clitoral Stimulation During Rear-Entry Sex Positions: From-behind sex positions such as Doggy-Style enable excellent g-spot stimulation and access for clitoral stimulation using a wand vibrator. Here’s an easy way to use a body massager to add lots of clitoral stimulation during from-behind sex.
- Fold a pillow in half and place the body massager on it.
- Place the pillow between your legs while you’re on all fours, and lower yourself onto it so the massager’s ball is pressing against your clitoris. You’ll probably have to get low and support your upper body with your elbows on the mattress.
- Enjoy g-spot stimulation from your husband’s lovemaking and clitoral stimulation from the body massager at the same time.
We highly suggest using a Liberator Axis Magic Wand Mount Sex Pillow for this technique instead of a squishy pillow that often shifts when you don’t want it to. Its shape and easy access to the Magic Wand’s power and speed buttons make it ideal for clitoral stimulation during from-behind sex.
You can also use one hand to hold the massager against your clit while having sex with your husband in one of the incredible from-behind sex positions below.
Which body massagers do you recommend?
Our Top Pick: The Original Magic Wand has been around since the 1970s and is still the best body massager for the price, in our opinion. The only downside to the Original Magic Wand is it’s loud. New versions of the Magic Wand, such as the Magic Wand Plus, Magic Wand Rechargeable, Magic Wand Mini, and Magic Wand Micro, are also available.
FemmeFunn’s Ultra Wand packs a lot of power into a small package. Ultra Wand is quieter than most wands and is waterproof, unlike most wands. There’s also an XL and Mini version of the Ultra Wand. The only downside to Ultra Wand is that no attachments are available.
Le Wand is a high-end massager line that delivers powerful stimulation in various vibration speeds and patterns. Choose from the full-size Le Wand Plug-In or Le Wand Rechargeable, or petite Le Wand Plug-In or Le Wand Rechargeable. Le Wand massagers also have an excellent selection of full-size or petite high-quality silicone attachments. Honestly, I’d choose these massagers over Magic Wands if they weren’t so expensive.